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If one more guy on a dating app suggests a car date or going to the movies I’m going to lose my shit
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Anonymous 50w

A museum date is really cute

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Anonymous 50w

Then maybe try communicating and you suggest a date spot

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Anonymous 50w

ew i never knew there was such a thing as a car date 💀

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Anonymous 50w

Never heard of these

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Anonymous 50w

What would you have preferred?

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Anonymous 50w

Okay wait actually Im curious-- What is your ideal perfect date?

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Anonymous 50w

Why do you even go on dates

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 50w

I like museum, art, gallery, aquarium, zoo, etc. I get some of those can be a little more expensive so it doesn’t have to be those but I feel like there’s so many other more fun and better options to take somebody on the first date other than going to get fast food or sitting in a movie theatre and not being able to talk for two hours

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 50w

Be glad you haven’t lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 50w

That’s what I’m saying. She just yapping to yap

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 50w

I’m not yapping to yap. You don’t know me nor have you seen the conversations I have with people so quite frankly I don’t know why you’re giving any input. Move along.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 50w

I have no issues communicating what I do and do not like if somebody makes a suggestion for a date I’m not into. It’s simply frustrating to see low effort from people and I’m venting about it which I should be allowed to do without people assuming I don’t communicate well.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

You’re complaining about “low effort” while giving even less effort. You are the reason dating apps are exhausting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 50w

From this post, how did you gather that I’m giving low effort? I ask guys out on a dating apps which is more than a lot of women are willing/comfortable doing. When I ask them I have a plan or several options/suggestions that aren’t some low effort bullshit like eating fast food restaurant in a car. But sure keep projecting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 50w

A walk, going to a restaurant, a museum, art gallery, etc. I’m in a city with multiple botanical gardens, a zoo, and an aquarium too. There a plenty of options and the majority of them are very inexpensive. Why are we sitting in a car and eating fast food or going to a movie where we can’t even talk and get to know each other?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

Interesting, I’ll suggest those next time. Thanks for the ideas

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 50w

No problem!! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 50w

Everything you mention could easily be gone by yourself and maybe meet a guy there instead of an app

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 50w

If you meet a guy at the aquarium at least you know he likes to go to the aquarium instead of hoping some guy you swiped on tinder takes you there

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 50w

I'm all for trying to meet people organically, but u can't act like OP is unreasonable for trying to date people on dating apps 😭

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