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How do u fuck men without getting attached or feeling used
39 upvotes, 11 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "How do u fuck men without getting attached or feeling used"
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Anonymous 1w

Biologically that’s the point. Hookup culture kinda ruined it for everyone

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Anonymous 1w

Ignore #1 & #2 if you actually want to enjoy casual sex/hookups without emotional turmoil. You have to abandon all culturally-instilled beliefs about sex, attachment, and value as it pertains to feminine sexuality. The idea that sex only exists to reproduce or for people (women in particular) to get attached to each other is cultural. If it weren’t, men would also feel like they had to attach themselves to the women they sleep so they wouldn’t feel devalued or dirty.

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Anonymous 1w

That’s the whole damn point. It’s something you’re supposed to do when ur really attached aka married.

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Anonymous 6d

You find someone that you know a relationship wouldn’t work with, who is good in bed, and you enjoy it on your own terms.

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Anonymous 1w

You don’t. Welcome to hell

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Next step is to just communicate boundaries clearly with partners at the start. If sex is something you both mutually enjoy absent of attachment, and you don’t objectified by the act itself, you won’t feel used.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Demon alert demon alert 🚨 ‼️ Genuinely evil shit coming out #3 ass right now 🚨 ‼️ It’s a cultural thing for a reason, you are saying to ignore centuries of human life to give in to your personal desires.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Imagine complaining that someone actually ignores a “cultural” thing to satisfy their own desires for themselves. Wild.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Oh look, a pilgrim with a TikTok addiction. 🥴 Girl, I’m educated & healed from my religious trauma. 💅 Your puritanical ravings have no power here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

the serfs found the secret time travel portal and are raiding the internet 🚨 beware the peasant brained!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

the whole point of this post is asking how to not get attached💀 clearly they don’t wanna get married and “attached” to someone yet

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