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How did you stop your younger brother from watching/listening to Andrew Tate?

Anonymous 4w

Not gonna lie I snapped and yelled at him because he was being hella disrespectful to me and our mother and I got sick of how he was acting towards our mom. We didnt talk for like a week after but it fixed the problem

Anonymous 4w

Helped him get a gf and suddenly dropped all that redpill shit even after they broke up tbh

Anonymous 4w

Andrew Tate is a convicted rapist and sex trafficker, you can’t be a fan of that dude and also be normal & have girls like you. Should be an easy choice

Anonymous 4w

Thank god I don’t have any brothers who I grew up with

Anonymous 4w

Where are his parents in this scenario? A good fatherly role model and a mom to take the chancla to his dumbass. Take the damn electronics away and make him mow the lawn with scissors.

Anonymous 4w

Let’s start with basics like why do you think he’s watching because there’s a reason

Anonymous 4w

Thankfully, my brother was born with 2+ brain cells and never fell into that BS. It also helped that he was actually raised with values so that definitely prevented him from being MAGA

Anonymous

#2 4w

Bc as a rape victim I cannot “help” someone falling into the far right pipeline I would just get angry and upset

Anonymous

#1 4w

Hes 14, I can’t help with dating

Anonymous

#3 4w

For a 14 year old boy’s perspective, Andrew Tate is fucking washed and was already old news by the time your brother was in 6th grade, can’t really think of anything more pathetic than being a high school freshman in 2025 looking up old Andrew Tate videos

Anonymous

#3 4w

He and his friends moved to other far right ppl idk which tho

Anonymous

OP 4w

Ain’t no way those other people aren’t also rapists and sex traffickers

Anonymous

#8 4w

That’s good shit fr 💯

Anonymous

#3 4w

Hell yeah. I’m not saying parents should beat their kids but cut my dick off if I reproduce a disrespectful little shit. Shame on me. I would rather my kids hate me than be brainwashed.

Anonymous

#8 4w

Parents are immigrants, they don’t understand any of this

Anonymous

OP 4w

…What part do they not understand because mine are immigrants as well and they know how to discipline a child..? Or do you mean they don’t understand who Andrew Tate is and the impact of not monitoring information that a child is exposed to

Anonymous

#8 4w

Bottom line is you should not be the one taking the responsibility to parent your younger brother. If you are in a situation where this falls on you, I feel sorry for you because that is not a burden an older sibling should have to carry rather than just being an example. Idk your family dynamic but peer pressure does a lot. If you can convince his friends to dog on him for watching crap like that then maybe that would help. Or treat him the way he’s treating others.

Anonymous

#8 4w

It’s admirable that you are actually taking the time and energy to invest in him and if he doesn’t appreciate it now, hopefully he will in the future when he gets through this phase.

Anonymous

#8 4w

His behavior is good, no problem in school or anything. It’s just that I don’t him falling in the rabbit hole

Anonymous

#8 4w

They don’t understand any problem with far right media, they’re not political at all

Anonymous

#8 4w

#7 does bring up a good point but hopefully it is with good intention. Maybe he had a poor experience with a girl and this pushed him in this direction. If you are a woman then maybe show him what a good woman acts like (this is said as “what a decent human being acts like” and not gender role stereotyping) he MAY notice but boys tend to need a slap in the face with reality because we don’t take hints well and need things spelled out more often than not.

Anonymous

#8 4w

Bottom line is he is 14 and very impressionable. Boys need role models and if this is not taken away from him entirely and replaced with someone of actual substance then this very well could develop from a phase into actually shaping his reality in adulthood.

Anonymous

#8 4w

He does have friends that are girls, most of his friends that are boys are similar to him, I found out when I overheard them talking about girls

Anonymous

#8 4w

There are many intelligent people that are extremely vile. I would assume that given your care he hopefully won’t turn out to be one of those. Media in general is media it’s no different than Jack Doherty trying to do dumb shit for views. Media outlets will post anything and unfortunately with society, it’s the content that fuels hate that gets the most attention. Actually researching events through reading through court cases or watching live news will provide a better understanding of what is

Anonymous

#8 4w

Actually taking place in a situation.

Anonymous

#8 4w

He’s unfortunately going to be exposed to this garbage but if you are able to teach him discernment then maybe that’ll help him develop a sense of understanding stupidity when he sees it.

Anonymous

#8 4w

My only bit of advice here is everyone is their own person. This is why we are called individuals. If you can teach him what discernment is without a biased opinion whether you think yours is correct or not and just attempt to present him with all facts possible then this will mitigate it backfiring on you if there comes a time when he thinks “oh they were wrong about this so they must be wrong about all of it! Screw them I’m going back to Tate.”

Anonymous

#8 4w

If his friends are similar to him then maybe through your guidance it will better shape him and maybe even influence his friends in a positive direction

Anonymous

#8 4w

You have a good head on your shoulders and your heart is in the right spot. Proceed with caution and keep that caring attitude. Obviously don’t take everything I say like it will 100% work for him as we are all different but hopefully this turns out to be helpful. :)