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Could I get some female perspective/further explanation on this?

OnlyPolls 3w

So the girl asked me to come to her place to help her move some furniture and gave me a hug when I walked in. What’s the determination?

#poll

Friendzoned (M)

She def wants me (M)

Friendzoned (F)

She def wants me (F)

267 votes

Anonymous 3w

As a girl I have no clue I’m horrible in these situations, but I have learned the skill of getting over myself and straight up asking if they’re interested in me as more than friends or no, and if the answer is no I play it off a bit like ok ok I didn’t think so but wasn’t sure and then go back to normal (I literally pretend it never happened) but it gives me the insight and closure I need lmao so I stop overthinking. It def takes some balls ngl but you never know they could say yes 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Anonymous 3w

not enough information

Anonymous 3w

And in case someone wants to mention it… “female” is an adjective there, not a noun

Anonymous 3w

Not enough info provided. Women hug ppl for all sorts of reasons

Anonymous

#1 3w

What more information do you need? I met the girl a few months ago through a mutual friend, said mutual friend brought her to the bar a few days ago, she was chatty and lightly touched my arm a few times (and nobody else), then yesterday the mutual friend said she wanted me to help her move something in her apartment, I went over, she hugged me and said “thank you so much you’re a lifesaver”

Anonymous

#3 3w

The touchiness surprised me

Anonymous

OP 3w

If she’s a friend, she might just finally think you’re close enough to hug. If she’s just a random acquaintance, maybe she’s trying to send a signal. If she’s from a culture I’m not super familiar with, idk. If you like her, you can always just tell her. That’s what I do, I’m too autistic to play neurotypical mind games. Works well. I say my feelings, they say their feelings, we both have all the information to make a decision. Simple.

Anonymous

#3 3w

Oh I certainly wished she used words instead of (potential) signals 😂

Anonymous

OP 3w

Maybe she’s thinking the same thing about you right now. Or maybe she’s not thinking anything about you because she just hugs people. One of you has to use words for words to happen, and I don’t have a way to contact her and tell her that. So either you use words, or you move on.