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does SA recovery ever get easier? my journey over the last four years has been up and down, recently i started going to therapy to talk about it and get help but i feel like im taking steps backwards instead of foward
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Anonymous 1d

ups and downs are definitely so normal with things like this. sometimes when i open up and feel/talk about traumatic things more it feels like going backwards in my healing journey but going to therapy is a great step and it takes alot of strength to do that. i’m sorry you even have to deal with this but im proud of you

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Anonymous 1d

I can’t speak on SA recovery but I was taught something very important in therapy. “Two steps forward one step back.” That might feel like you are losing momentum but you’re still going forward. I wish you all the best of luck in healing.

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Anonymous 1d

for me, i got kind of lucky when 3/8 of my assaulters went to prison, so that did provide some closure! but learning how to be comfortable with myself again, with my body and how i felt, was very helpful. i built up and maintained a strong support system of women. took one day at a time. and i think im getting better! i even went on a date last week!

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

and “one step at a time”! very important

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

I’m not a woman but I’ve been SAed before and I totally agree. With time you may still get triggered but it becomes less often.

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