
You never hear anyone say âstrong white womanâ âstrong Asian womanâ or anyone else with the description âstrongâ in front of it. So why say it to black women? It comes off as disingenuous and condescending. Especially with the societal stigma of black women being âstrong and masculineâ enough as is. Same with referring to us as âblack queensâ itâs like youâre trying overboard to give a compliment without it being normal. Itâs not a compliment to us
Also the implication of always having to be strong because the world forces you. Thatâs not a compliment, itâs a reminder. And it perpetuates the idea that black women donât deserve or need to be treated as gently as other people/other women, which has been a theme in many areasâespecially medicine where doctors and institutions have for decades perpetuated the myth that black people have âthicker skinâ and donât feel as much pain