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ladies help. i want to leave my bf. but we’ve dating for less than a year and i gave him my virginity which i lowkey regret. he’s super toxic and i’m losing interest but like… i gave him my v. idk what to do bc ik im attached and will prob miss him.
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Anonymous 4w

I don’t rly understand, almost nobody ends up forever with the person they lost their virginity to, it’s not that big of a deal

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Anonymous 4w

If he is toxic, please leave him, that’s more than enough reason. Yes losing your virginity is a sensitive matter and you might still care about him but if you’re losing interest then you don’t love him like you once did and it’s time to move on before it gets worse

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Anonymous 4w

the significance of your virginity is only as much as you make of it. not worth staying in a bad relationship for that at all. free yourself

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Anonymous 4w

In my head when I have to part with someone. I see it as a book, you’re really interested too and the story line is good and all of a sudden the book changes story line and you don’t give a fuck about the ending. Just yeet that book. You don’t need to know the ending. It was good well it lasted. Time to walk away.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

it’s just bc i’ve even saving it for so long and i don’t want it to be all for nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yea ur right

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

what an interesting way to perceive it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

yea i guess it doesn’t matter. i also know imma miss him bc i did love him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m sorry :( it’s not all for nothing though, and you definitely should not stay in a bad relationship with a toxic person just bc of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

thank you, i plan on leaving. i can’t take it anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

This is completely irrational lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

how so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You don't think it's completely ret*rded to stay with someone FORVER just because they took your virginity? 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

i never said forever. i at LEAST wanted to make it to a year

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

longevity doesnt mean meaningfulness — time doesnt make a relationship more or less meaningful,, ive been with my current bf for almost 6 months and its the most meaningful relationship ive had

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

For what it’s worth I dated the guy I lost my virginity to for only like 3 months, it was almost 10 years ago and it does not matter or affect me at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

sunk cost fallacy

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 1w

ahhh an accountant i see👀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

#7 is right. I was with the guy that took my virginity for 3 years and 10 months and it was the worst experience of my life. i regret every second i had with him bc he used that against me post breakup. the longer you stay with them, the more its gonna hurt in the end. dont stay with them out of guilt. get out while you have the motive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

wait omg i love this

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