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seaformula

 I wanna ask.. but don’t know how to word it so I’ll try…. I’m a guy that really wants to get to know a girl and well…it’s hard for me since I don’t like talking first or asking straight up. I’m a romantic and would love to know how to be more confident.
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Anonymous 1d

Well if you want that you have to start talking first and asking straight up. You are a romantic, then act like it. Show them that.

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Anonymous 1d

I’ve had hard times with this partly because of my past but also because I am really afraid of rejection. Girls scare me but in their own beautiful way, are amazing in ways that I can’t explain. I just…I wanna find love and I feel like I’m getting left behind and I know that I am not as we’re on our own paths…it’s just.. you know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

That’s my problem. I don’t like asking straight up because of my fear of rejection as I am adopted and it runs deeper than most

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Wish it was that simple for me

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Anonymous replying to -> seaformula 1d

I know it’s hard, I had the exact same issue. But I found that people also don’t want to make the first move and if I don’t they never will. I’d rather just get it done than worry about it

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Anonymous replying to -> seaformula 23h

Find something in common. Talk and get to know them first. See if you like them as a person before you ask them out. Or if you don’t want to do the talking part see if they’re into physical contact instead. If you initiate physically the other person will start the “what do you want from what’s going on between us?” Talk. Rejection is unfortunately a part of the deal and a possibility on both sides but if you move through life avoiding it then you’ll never do anything at all.

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