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I’m I being weird for asking my gf if we end up breaking up for whatever reason, if she would reach out to her ex or go back if he reached out?😭. I just want to know if she fully moved on lol. Since ik in the past she broke up with someone to be with ex
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Anonymous 5w

that can only end in her being offended and thinking you don’t trust her

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Anonymous 5w

The name of the ex is never said unless you want him in her head

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Anonymous 5w

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Anonymous 5w

Tho it had been a year since she and her ex last met before she met me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I mean I obviously trust her or wouldn’t have been in this relationship. I don’t think she will ever cheat. It’s more of an assurance to my insecurity, tho she didn’t cheat on her exes. She had this one guy she would see whenever she broke up with someone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Wdym by that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It’s a quote from a show basically means there’s no need to even bring up an ex. And yes you’d be weird to do that because you just said it’s been a year since her and him met before she met you and yet you’re still questioning if she’s moved on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Yes but I want to know from her actually saying it😭. I don’t think my mind is gonna stay calm otherwise lol. Like if she just says that she isn’t gonna get back with them if we ever broke up, means she is completely over them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

you’re just putting her in an uncomfortable position by asking….

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

But wouldn’t that be a valid thing I would want to know as a bf or no?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Well if you break up with her then she’s free to see whoever she wants including her ex. Just ask her straight up if she’s 100% moved on completely instead of phrasing it like that and tell her you just want some reassurance

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Sure I’ll let her know that, hope she understands that I’m coming from a place of reassurance and not distrust🤞

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