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I’ve been talking to this guy for 2ish weeks & he’s been staying with me every night. 2d ago was my bday & he forgot. he wrote me a cute card, flowers, and cake the next day. i find out today he got a nude from a girl he used to sleep with. what to do?
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Anonymous 1w

First off never let a guy sleep over planned like this for that long. The relationship will fail. You need to not rush into it

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Anonymous 1w

has he been talking to the girl or did she just randomly send it?

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Anonymous 1w

did he do anything about it?

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Anonymous 1w

you’ve been talking to a guy for two weeks and he’s been staying with you every night??? girl seems like you just found a new roommate 🤔

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Anonymous 1w

Don’t overthink it’s only been 2 weeks. Now if in 2 months the red flags keep piling up, you have a problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

He just kept coming over every night and I didn’t care. I didn’t think we were rushing but yeah I see what you mean.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Don’t see the person more than twice a week imo for serious time together

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Everybody's different tbf, what works for some won't work for others and such

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yeah I was going to say everyone is different bc I know a lot of people that have done that and were inseparable and others not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Yeah I mean I go to his house sometimes too. But my question is the other thing haha

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

to be honest’s, I punch him in his chest and ask him what’s going on and how dare you forget my birthday? But I’m not calm & collected so that would actually make me spiral

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

True. A week ago too he took my sunglasses and went to a party and literally gave them to a girl cause she was talking to him (my guess is flirting) and wearing them as a joke and then ended up losing them. Idk there have been a few red flags already

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i think it just shows he’s not fully committed yet which makes sense since u guys aren’t dating. i would let it play out still but keep it in mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I just don’t really know how long to let it play out. And he has been talking to her which is why he received it and just complimented the photo.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

he complimented the photo??? and he’s been at your house for the past two weeks ?????? every night????? 🌞🌞🌞 ??????????????? I say get a new one cause now I’m mad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

he took your sunglasses and went to a party and give them to another girl????? he took your property and gave it to another girl 🌞🌞🌞🌞 #op are you bothered at all by it ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

oh girl hell no. receiving it is one thing. but talking to her at the same time AND complimenting it?? absolutely not. she felt comfortable and close enough to send it. like #3 said.. i am mad for you😭😭😭😭 get out while you can

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