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Ask Women 1d
When the men invade this space then ask for advice “privately in DMs”. Just stfu and say it here, creep.
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Ladies what are some icks you have for men?
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Anonymous 1d

lowkey i’m leaving because of this. it’s literally constantly flooded with pervs no matter how many i block :/

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Anonymous 1d

I mean ask women is for men AND women so not really invading…

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Anonymous 1d

I mean women on Ask Men also sometimes ask for advice privately in DMs because they feel more comfortable in doing so than posting all the details of their situation. I presume it’s the same for some of the men who ask for advice privately in DMs, but I understand your skepticism given how many people there are on here who fetish bait.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I think she means Pervs

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah, but this place is for men and women to ask women questions, we aren’t invading anything. You get weirdos on ask men too and we don’t say women are invading

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

The guys with fetishes truly do invade the space though. They push their weird shit onto women here so much that it affects how they react to everything. That means a well meaning guy may get treated poorly because women are shown time and time again that trusting these people goes badly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Exactly like I’ve asked some questions in the past and got mostly positive responses but I would never condone people who fetishize you all, they turn a safe space into a sexual one and that disgusts me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Even the most innocent of questions turn out to be fetish bait. Such as the soda question from yesterday

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

You must’ve forgot this is the AskWomen forum, rational discussion is not allowed here even when you agree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah apparently.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yall are confused she is saying it’s fine to ask on the forum. the issue is when they ask for advice in “private dms”. Read it again!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

then you should hate the fetish guys even more, because the vast majority of "DM me" people are perverts and are ruining the option of privacy for people who want it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9h

I already said I condemn the fetish guys, and understand why women wouldn’t want to give advice privately in DMs because of it. I merely said not everyone who asks for advice privately in DMs is a fetish guy or a creep— at least a minority of posters asking for advice in DMs are probably not regularly active in this community and just oblivious to what’s going on with the guys who are fetish baiting here.

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