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Motto to live by: If you wouldn’t be cool with a gay man twice your size doing it to you alone at night at a bus stop don’t do it to a woman
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Men will downplay rape/consent but suddenly understand boundaries and consent when a gay man hits on them. so you DO understand consent .. you just refuse to acknowledge it?
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Anonymous 1d

Hi, man with a boyfriend. He’s trans masc, and has had problems like that at least 3 times (rightfully cagey about the topic) Anyway, respect people please. This is one of the worst things to do to a person.

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Anonymous 1d

You’re comparing apples to oranges. Why don’t you ask a straight man about a straight woman doing it? Then tell me the outcome.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Sure but they’re both fruit. Women who cross boundaries DO need to be called out but “would you be okay with a woman touching you or making sexual comments” doesn’t always hit as hard because some (not all) guys like that and there’s no physical intimidation for the ones who don’t. A guy will understandably be uncomfortable but not afraid of being overpowered. The common dislike, discomfort and fear of being overpowered IS there when it’s a dude hitting on another dude tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Idk I’m a small dude and I could easily be overpowered by a lot of women. In fact it’s happened before 🫤

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

My man!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ew no I didn’t like it 😓

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I’m sorry that happened to you and definitely didn’t want to come off as saying no GUYS ever worry about that. Most guys are taught they’re stronger than women (which on average they usually are) so feeling physically threatened by a random woman usually doesn’t cross their mind. But that’s not the case for everyone and I’m sorry you’ve had a first hand experience of why.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

you’re fucking disgusting.

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