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Are guys scared of approaching girls?
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Anonymous 6w

in general decent guys: hesitate to approach bc they don't want to make anyone uncomfortable creeps: dgaf both broad groups may also be insecure and fear rejection, but what differs is how they psychologically cope with that

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Anonymous 6w

yup they are cs i’m shy & have a rbf & guys literally sometimes do not approach me mainly for the rbf reason so if i REALLY like a guy i would have to approach them & it’s always “i thought u were mean at first” this is also w friendships too tho 😭

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Anonymous 6w

I’m not scared of talking to them with the intention of being friends However the moment I have a crush on you it’s terrifying because I don’t want to screw it up

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Anonymous 6w

Yes. At least personally

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Anonymous 6w

Would guys like girls to ask?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Why not try?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well the things I most admire are things that would make a great friend as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Also my crush had a BF

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ah that is a bump in the road

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

And there BF is also a good friend of mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

OH SHIT

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

So idk what you can do with that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I will just have to find a different girl 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Thats prob your best bet in this situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Still scared to ask?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well if I ever have another crush I definitely will be scared to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ya make sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Make sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

But probably will actually be able to ask her at some point if theres not all that extra crap

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ooo interesting, even though ur friends with her bf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No I’m talking about if I develop a crush on anyone girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Oh got it makes more sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

No literally same here i feel like i look mean and i literally am not at all. I was get i thought u were mean. Unless they met me like as a friend.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

no fr it’s a struggle mann i can’t help how my face looks😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Exactlyyy like i am probably thinking really hard about something im not mad 😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

OK the problem is, im scared lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Seems to be a lot of guys

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well one of us is going to have to overcome that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ya.. id say im out going person so i will find the courage somehow

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yes queen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

lmfaoooo i’m crying cs 9/10 this is what i’m doing 😭

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