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Ask Women 18h

What to do when you started hooking up and ended up liking each other and having a year long “relationship” without ever being official and now that it’s been so long anytime we have to have the conversation he has every excuse to avoids it.

Anonymous 17h

if he avoids it, you genuinely have your answer. he is afraid of the commitment. if the commitment is important to you, you have to draw a line, otherwise he will continue to have everything he wants with none of the compromises.

Anonymous 17h

Girl take it from me, he doesn’t want the same kind of commitment you’re looking for. Not saying that to be an asshole, I just speak from a veryyyy similar experience

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Anonymous 17h

It sounds like he just doesn’t want to be your boyfriend. have you talked about exclusivity ? there’s a reason he doesn’t want to make things official and i think you should press him on it, do whatever it takes to get him to explain. if he just refused to talk about it, i would rethink where you stand with him. you should be with someone who is proud to to call you theirs

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hellraiser 17h

We have talked about it. And we’ve slightly talked abt this issue too. But every time that I start to turn the conversation into a more serious direction all the sudden he can’t talk

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OP 17h

well if he doesn’t change then you kinda have your answer. he doesn’t sound mature enough to be in an adult relationship. you have to decide if you want to continue on this path or if you want better for yourself

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#3 17h

I don’t think he’s thinking as far ahead into the future as I am as far as our relationship goes