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Just bc a man is willing to sleep with you doesn't mean he thinks you're attractive enough to date
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Anonymous 31w

Just because a man sleeps with you doesn’t mean he finds you attractive at all

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Anonymous 31w

Men are desperate and would sleep with a pillow if it talked back to them. Idk why they think sex is easier than attraction. You’re good enough to sleep with bc it’s just a vagina it won’t matter. But once it starts to get serious you aren’t “pretty enough”. Kind of odd

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Anonymous 31w

I just think it's a poor decision to sleep with a guy if you're not dating him because he's most likely using you. Don't wanna get used? Don't give up the cookie until y'all are dating.

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Anonymous 31w

Exactly!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 31w

Some men don’t even want them to talk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 31w

Wait what

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 31w

Oh that. Yeah true they rather you just do nothing and then blame it on you later. I mean if you didn’t see anything long term then just say that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 31w

A man can still be using you tho if youre dating him, so thats a silly metric

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 31w

There’s only one scientific way to do it: look up the price of escorts that look like you in your area, and make sure the amount of money he spends on you is greater than the value of your cookie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 31w

Baiting it and then cashing it in as a bargaining chip is a flawed strategy though because then you wind up having sex you don’t want, in exchange for a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to date you. Neither are really ideal

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 31w

That’s so embarrassing if you’re so desperate to sleep with people you don’t even find attractive

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Anonymous 31w
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Anonymous replying to -> #3 31w

Well the men on yik yak I imagine are better than the men in real life

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 31w

Wait: which is it? Men on yikyak are horrible creeps DMing everyone nasty things… but now they’re better than the men IRL!?!?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 31w

Umm majority of men on yik yak seem better than the ones in real life of course there’s some weird ones dming people but

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