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Ask Women 1d
Not sure if this is the right place for this question but how do u guys feel about directness when hooking up? I feel like I catch them by surprise and make it a little awkward when I just straight ask if they want to do something but idk how else to ask
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Anonymous 1d

it might come across unsexy but communication is important. there are subtle ways to make is sound more in the mood

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Anonymous 1d

Like asking directly for head or if they want head, if they want me to smack their butt, if something feels good etc I’m not good at picking up cues so idk what else to do other than ask directly

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Anonymous 1d

Only works if you’re attractive enough

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t do hookups

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Anonymous 18h

I don’t do hookups, but I’m very direct in sex. Not like forceful, and I make it clear that my questions and suggestions are JUST that, and not like order and I won’t be disappointed if they don’t want that. But I will just straight up ask things. Tbh I don’t really respect people who want sex but lack the balls/maturity to acknowledge it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Ok well when you’re with your SO would that be a turn off for you?

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