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Got ghosted by a date and need some advice on what happened? Date went really well got her flowers, chatted, watched a movie together she touched up on my facial hair and gave me a kiss on the cheek before I left and now no response. I’m just confused
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Anonymous 15h

Honestly I don’t know. It sounds like everything went right. How long has it been since you two messaged?

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Anonymous 14h

Was there anything specific you guys talked about that she may have not responded well to? Doesn’t sound like anything really went “wrong” but you never know ig

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Anonymous 13h

Hi OP, sorry for your experience. That whole date could have been her trying to expand her social intelligence seeing who is out there and who is interested in her. Then how she behaves shows her how you react. Like a mock trial or mock debate where it’s a mock date. If she did have interest, there was someone higher on her list that came forward. Either way, the person is a resource and not a person when treated this way.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 15h

Few days since around Tuesday, texted once yesterday but I’ve left her alone incase she needed space

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Does she have a busy job? I’m trying to think of the best case scenario here. Without more context I obviously can’t know what happened and sometimes we don’t do anything wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

What are you talking about?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 9h

Sorta? Mostly during the day but she was active on socials a lot . I’m honestly not upset and I hope I didn’t do anything wrong but a straight answer would be nice rather than a ghost

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

I wouldn’t say so? It was a first date so I didn’t bring up anything crazy just what we would do after graduation, interests, what her hobbies were just general lowball questions nothing I’d consider crazy. Some slight political questions but we were very much on the same page about that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Hm yeah I really don’t know tbh, best possibility is just she got busy maybe but who knows? 🤷‍♀️ Unfortunately sometimes people ghost without you doing anything wrong. Sorry you had a weird experience with this

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