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Does height matter more then looks or like kindness?
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Anonymous 11w

Kindness > looks > height

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Anonymous 11w

this is what's known as The Cursed Ratio

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Anonymous 11w

Depends on the person, it can get discouraging especially since it’s out of your control. You have to be me optimistic and understand there is someone out there you are compatible with.

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Anonymous 11w

this is fr the fourth time today this exact question has been posted

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Anonymous 11w

ofc not

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Anonymous 11w

I’m so sick of height being brought up in this sub and women having to constantly state that height is not at the top of our fking list. If he ain’t kind he ain’t mine. Simple

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Anonymous 11w

Looks matter more than kindness because the woman will know if you’re attractive enough to date before you open your mouth

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Anonymous 11w

Then do it and just talk to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Looksmaxxx got it I’ll start taking retaa

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Or you can just exercise and lose the weight normally

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

That’s not enough to compete with

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

He’s short? So

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It’s enough so long as you are average height and white

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Okay I’m neither but I get it if you’re white

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I’m not black tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

i feel like i rather date a mid guy who’s insanely nice to me than a hot guy who’s a dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Then do it and don’t just say it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

if the opportunity was presented to me then i would 100% do it ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

But the question is do you let them even try to shoot because a lot of girls just immediately shut it down or don’t say nun and walk away y

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i do let them shoot their shot

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Mmm

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

“I’m not black tho” you’re not white and below avg height probably over lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

With u ig but I just gotta be wild

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

So a black guy since he’s tall has a better shot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

If it’s that simple why haven’t you done it yet 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Depends on the type women you are talking about and what your skin color is in comparison

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I have respect and don’t fuck just anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

mmm? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Don’t believe me?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i’m confused what u meant by mmm is all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Do u workout a lot? I heard it makes them people xtrabhorny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

do i work out a lot ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

This kid is schizophrenic ignore him atp 💀

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Anonymous 11w

Can you help me figure out how to showcase kindness on my Tinder profile? I can’t wait to be swimming in likes if you help me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

i’m not a fan of tinder so i can’t help i’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Don’t call me bubba

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

But be honest please

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Wdym be honest? Kindness would come before both of those by a landslide 😭 But if you had to put them in an order kindness would come first, then looks, then height if those were what I had to pick from on importance

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

girl i read your comment so wrong im so stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

It’s looks first because if ur nice and not good loooking girls hate it and find it idk creeeoy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Bruh I just don’t want 1 girl in my life time while others try atleast 30 before finding “the right one “

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Oh! It’s okay. I figured the arrows may have looked backwards

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Good looking guys are just as much if not twice as creepy you can’t rely on looks to save you. Good looking guys are prob some of the easiest, lustful and creepy men out there have you seen what a D1 athlete acts like when he’s horny 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

nothing is scarier than seeing a guy who knows he’s attractive try and approach you😭 yk he’s gonna keep pushing and not leave u alone and then end up insulting you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

They’re creepier than the average guys that complain that they’ll be creepy. At least an average guy can take a no for an answer faster than they can. They think bc they look good they’re entitled to you bc they believe they get whatever they want 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Really?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

You ever consider they do that because it works on many women 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Yes women end up giving them a chance and they like them well cuz they look good good body good d’’k

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

still doesn’t make it ok?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Insulting people? No. Asking someone the same question again and then changing their answer is not inherently wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

But u guys idk the word but like end up sureeendering oh submissive

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

the point was that them doing that makes people uncomfortable, even if they’re attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

For everyone person it makes uncomfortable there are two who don’t feel that way. Making someone uncomfortable unintentionally is not problematic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

i would personally disagree, i’m sure you have a different perspective, but in my perspective it makes majority feel uncomfortable. but i’m sure it’s just difference in experiences that is making us seemingly disagree

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

If men were supposed to care about the potential of making someone uncomfortable unintentionally then they basically would never date. It’s just how it works

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

yeah i understand that, my point still stands though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

What is your point that it’s wrong to make someone feel uncomfortable?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

no, my point was that attractive men can still make women uncomfortable and are usually more alerting and anxiety inducing, from my experience and others around me, that was the original point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Reminds me of when Aqua was still here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

It doesn’t hope this helps

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

You’re both insufferable idiots. Please do us a favor and don’t approach for other women’s sake. You make creepy men look good and that’s sad with this sickening behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

If someone is uncomfortable that is not my problem so long as I’m not doing anything weird lmao

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Anonymous 11w

Can you both stfu. Neither of you get pussy bc you’re insensitive bratty little man children with no respect for women

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Block button exists but instead you cope and pretend women don’t put out easy when you look a certain way 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

And men don’t? Hell men don’t even need a woman to look a certain way. They just want their dik wet. So wtf it matter?

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Anonymous 11w

Easier but women are less inclined to hook up. Yk, pregnancy and shit? Growing a human for nine months? Big pass for a lot of us. And women tend to enjoy cuddling, making out, and just spending time together over a “cum n go” situation they probably didn’t actually cum from

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

We don’t. And men can just as much as women. If women are so easy how come neither of you get laid?

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Anonymous 11w

Poli sci you think ppl get laid just bc they look good every day in this forum and you continue to forever look like a dumbass for it. Some of us have some self respect to not have sex just bc we can look nice. It takes effort (something you’ve never done in your life) and I’d rather sleep with ppl I’m connected with to better protect me from the STIs men give out instead of just having sex bc it’s readily fucking available

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Girls have the diseases not just guys idiot these girls are fucken nasty

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Anonymous 11w

It LITERALLYworks both ways and the standards for women’s beauty is much higher than men’s

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Anonymous 11w

Fk comedians are a great example. Not always “Beauty standards” attractive but damn do they get bitches. Why? Bc they make girls laugh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Girls get the diseases from the guys we don’t just get those naturally. The only natural thing that we can cause by using things that aren’t a man’s genitals are BV and yeast infections which aren’t STIs

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Anonymous 11w

So do it if you want to it’s not our fault you’re a walking woman repellent

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

My bf being an example and he always wonders why I start smiling when I’m with him. Like dude maybe it’s bc you’re funny 😭

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Anonymous 11w

Go have sex. It goes both ways. And stfu for once in your life. If someone could staple your mouth shut I’m sure they would

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Anonymous 11w

Okay what about gaming nerds? Also not considered attractive by beauty standards but girls eat them tf up. Or celebrities like Adam Sandler, Christian Isiah, Mathew Gubler, DJ Khalad

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Same! My bf is a funny nerd but he is bigger, shorter, scruffy. Idc. Man makes me laugh, buys me food, and loves my annoying antics lol

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Anonymous 11w

Ofc he drives?

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Anonymous 11w

Yes bc what does driving have to do with literally any of this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

He's just going to continue his sad story looking for attention. Id recommend just stop entertaining him

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