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Should I say something to my gf about sleeping in the same bed with a new friend who is bi? Or does that sound controlling and insecure

Anonymous 3d

Sleeping in the same bed as someone who is bi, or someone who could theoretically be attracted to you, is not inherently wrong, even if you’re in a relationship. Attraction existing isn’t the issue. The issue is you misrepresenting what actually happened. In your comments, you claim that she crossed boundaries and that she cheated, if that’s the case, then just say that and end the relationship.

Anonymous 3d

And hid the fact for months

Anonymous 3d

Hey don't let #1 guilt you for something totally understandable especially if the situation was reversed. It's understandable to feel uncomfortable especially if something like that happened in the past! However, you did stay when she apparently has made out with a girl before during your relationship and I don't believe it has to take you once again talking about it to get it through her head. I do suggest talking to her about it but if she doesn't take it seriously then break up

Anonymous 3d

So you didn't read anything I said in my post.

Anonymous 3d

But he provided context so now his concerns have basis??

Anonymous 3d

But if you also read I also suggest that he TALK about it and if what she says makes him uncomfortable then break up but you conveniently skipped over that :/

Anonymous 3d

It seems like you're fighting to be "right" or mean then give this man actual advice 🤨

Anonymous

#4 3d

There is already a long-standing stigma that bi people are inherently unfaithful simply because they’re bi, and pushing that narrative by misrepresenting facts only reinforces harmful stereotypes. Being bi does not mean someone is more likely to cheat. She didn’t cheat on you because she’s bi, she cheated on you because she made bad choices.