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dismantledmoose

 This could obviously just be a me thing but uhh… I kinda hate the phrases we (potentially mainly men…) use for having sex now like…”clapping cheeks” I cannot take you seriously. 😭😭 Anyone else?
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Anonymous 4w

"cracked" is soo gross

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Anonymous 4w

I sometimes think some of the verbiage makes sex less intimate sure

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Anonymous 4w

It just sounds icky like ewww

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Anonymous 4w

it kinda feels degrading and violent, like cracked or i’d hit that or smash, it all just lacks emotions and care and consensual implications

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Like if i finished having sex with my bf and he tells his friends he "just crushed his gf" I think that might make it sound like he just had casual sex with some random woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I know that was a hypothetical situation but— if my partner felt the need to announce to their friends we just had sex…I’m cutting that person off 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> dismantledmoose 4w

Oh for sure, i broke up with my ex months ago because he would do that and he's 5 years older than me (i was 20 he was 25 when we started dating)

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Anonymous replying to -> dismantledmoose 4w

If it was for the first time, then that’s valid to announce

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Yes!! I feel this way about “fucked” as well. How about “making love” or “caressing you” or something that doesn’t sound like a threat or violent

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