Anonymous #2 5w

That’s actually so fair tho. I haven’t met many that don’t do this

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Me? Oh god no😭 I can’t stand this guy.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Cuz women won’t listen

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Nah we listen. Just not to lame attempts of self pity

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Anonymous OP 5w

U won’t admit any flaws on the part of women. It’s all men’a fault

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yea no we know you dude and how you have continuously thrown yourself pity parties expecting people to join you and empathize with you. Maybe if you actually put in the work to do better then you'll be happier.

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Anonymous #1 5w

I did get sympathy, from MEN

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Are you talking about your fellow incel giga? Bc I can tell you that you haven't in ask men when you've tried there.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Women will keep on whining and complaining abt men meanwhile, w/o looking in the mirror

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You get sympathy from other small minded boys who think women should bend to your whim🙄 it’s not our fault that no woman wants to touch you

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yeah. He’s a cool guy. Very smart and based.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Poli sci when are you gonna get the therapy you keep saying you’re gonna get and get off this app for good

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yea no you're finding other incels to wallow with you in your own incompetence. You've asked before what you can do to become better and you were given advice on how to do better. The world doesn't owe you anything, its up to you to figure your shit and become better.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Therapy is supposed to magically make me attractive to women

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Therapy is supposed to help you sort through your problems that are evident.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Therapy can be quite helpful for those with narcissistic tendencies

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Anonymous OP 5w

What r u, an armchair psychologist? Get out of here 😭

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Anonymous #1 5w

I want to be attractive. I want someone in my life

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

That’s not nice poli sci I thought we told you if you’re gonna wallow online actually go talk to women irl. You said you don’t even interact with ppl

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Then maybe stop wallowing in this bullshit and do something with your life

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Anonymous #2 5w

What’s the point if women think I’m ugly? Ya’ll would rather men like me die than talk to u

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

If you want someone in your life you need to solve the problems you have rn. Getting into a relationship isn't going to magically fix everything. While a relationship is a partnership in which you support each other by placing all of your burdens onto your partner expecting them to solve them isn't fair to them. You're 24 years old and you have time yet to meet someone.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I am. Just not rn

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Whatever buttercup. Not my life, not my self pity. If you didn’t act like we owe you something for acting like toddler, women would likely be into you

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Anonymous #1 5w

My problem is I’m 24 and never dated, and I have little chance of finding someone who I like and will date me now

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Okay then you’ll be single until you do what do you want us to do hold your hand and do it for you?

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Anonymous #1 5w

This. Right here.

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’m on break rn

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I have a friend who’s 24, officially got a gf during Christmas. What’s your excuse

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Bro. You got a whole life to find someone. I swear people act like once they’re 30 they won’t be able to find anyway

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Anonymous #2 5w

Also a friend who’s like 25. Never dated. Got a gf last year as well. No excuses for you poli sci

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Perfect time to go out and talk to people

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Anonymous OP 5w

Why do u say that? That women likely be into me. I’m apparently an ugly bastard

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

😒 I’m not even gonna humor this shit anymore. Man up and stop whining like a a boy. You want something, find it

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

We've seen your face before when you posted it here. You're not a bad looking guy you lack the confidence and are constantly falling into the idea presented by social media of when women want

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Anonymous #2 5w

How buttugly is he and how chopped is his gf?

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Anonymous #1 5w

“Not bad looking” isn’t good enough for women

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

That’s not important. He got a gf so why can’t you instead of whining like a 4 yr old

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Anonymous #2 5w

We just don’t date pussies which is what you are. Maybe if you acted confident and stop bitching women would like you more

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

It quite literally is tho. Attractiveness is subjective.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Would you actually stop and listen instead of trying to debate every single thing that we're telling you? Or are you incapable of realizing when you're in a hole that you keep digging deeper? Like god damn you're using so many logical fallacies here that its embarrassing

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Anonymous #1 5w

Apparently not. He doesn’t wanna hear it. He doesn’t really care. Just wants the attention which we are unfortunately giving him

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Anonymous #2 5w

I want a gf who is also “not bad looking.” But “not bad looking” men aren’t good enough for “not bad-looking women”

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Anonymous #1 5w

He said before he doesn’t talk to women irl and yet one girl talked to him in person but thinks she’s not interested. Like just bc a woman responds back doesn’t mean she’s a bitch. He doesn’t wanna try he likely wants to live alone or in his mom’s house and talk to the only women that he can even fathom speaking to. Which are women that he can’t see the face of bc he knows he’ll crash out in front of real life women

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Anonymous OP 5w

It would appear so. 24 years old and acting like a high school freshman.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Can it.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Sure. Die single and alone then. We’re not gonna hold your hand and do stuff for you you’re a grown ass man. Man tf up

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Anonymous #2 5w

Either grow tf up or stfu. We don’t wanna hear it either way poli sci please call your mother or something

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Anonymous #1 5w

Not even a freshman. This is literally how grade school boys act.

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’d rather die single and alone than end up w/ a chopped gf

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

And I’m sure a lot of women would rather die alone than to be seen with a whiny manchild like you. So win win for everyone

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

What? Are the girls too ugly for you now too?I’m telling you, this narcissistic bullshit is not going to get you anywhere

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Please. Save everyone the stupidity of your whining and shut up

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Anonymous OP 5w

Thats just sad then. I really hope that he realizes that social media is not helping him and is just digging his hole deeper than it already is. I do believe that he can find a relationship, but he needs to put in the work to build one and needs to reset himself from social media bc it isn't helping him. By embracing incel ways and leaning into them he hurts himself more

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Anonymous #1 5w

I think everyone is capable of finding love. There are just things people need to work on before to begin and maintain a healthy relationship

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Anonymous OP 5w

Ik my worth, even if women don’t

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Maybe show women that you’re not worth a goddamn penny then

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Anonymous OP 5w

How?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You know your worth, then why not use it to find a relationship instead of complaining on here?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Well maybe read the rest of these comments. We’ve all told you. It’s not my fault if you don’t wanna follow advice given by women about women

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You're a grad student figure it out.

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Anonymous OP 5w

U think I can find a girl who’s not bad looking?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

And right over the head! What have we told you to do? Read the full text instead of just skimming it.

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Anonymous #1 5w

That part. Sometimes men don’t listen if it’s not what they wanna hear. They want it fast and easy. Working on themselves is for losers

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Anonymous OP 5w

Do women have to “work on themselves”? U can get a man w/o doing shit

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Anonymous #1 5w

I read it. Ik I can find a gf if I don’t act like this, but I want her to not be bad looking

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yes everyone has to work on themselves sometimes. Women aren't this monolith of they have everything easy all the time.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t worked on herself when looking for love or dating

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

And I’m not convinced a woman who is “not bad looking” like me will date me

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Anonymous OP 5w

How? Why? U largely don’t have to

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Then maybe change your expectations buddy. You’re not gonna get one if you don’t think you will.

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Anonymous #1 5w

What do women have to do? Be hotter?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Then stop acting like this. Don't worry about what she looks like. Its always obvious when a dude is judging you on your appearance finding tiny flaws that deem you as not worth it

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Anonymous OP 5w

Hmmm

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Oh jeez. Well many women suffer from mental health issues so we have to manage that. A surprising amount of women have undergone trauma which needs to be processed. And they do quite a lot for their appearances even though you’ll likely not notice it. Must I go on?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Are you just going to disregard this or are you actually going to be receptive to listening and maybe learning something for once? Bc I can easily just walk away rn and leave you. Those type of comments will not be tolerated. Understood?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Sorry if that seemed insensitive. I genuinely don’t know/am ignorant of how women “work on themselves”

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Well now you know

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Anonymous OP 5w

And that’s not even all of it. So become more away of the shit everybody has to deal with. Everybody needs to work on themselves at some point in their lives and you are no fucking exception

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Is it understood that those types of comments will not be tolerated?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yeah. I didn’t realize it would be that offensive

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Anonymous OP 5w

Is the trauma from men?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Trauma can be from anything. Death as an example, witnessing an accident, war

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

The trauma can be from anything. Statistically women are more likely to report trauma

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Anonymous OP 5w

Trauma from rejection?

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Anonymous #6 5w

No. I’m deadass

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

No. From nothing that can cause trauma.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Can rejection cause trauma tho? I’ve only told a girl I liked her once…

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Anonymous #6 5w

Nah he’s trolling. I know men are actually this insensitive and annoying

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Okay. That’s great. No.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I don’t think you understand the definition of trauma buddy

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Anonymous OP 5w

I asked where women’s trauma comes from? I’m guessing SA

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’ve only ever met one dude like this irl (not friends with him, he was just in the same club and some classes), and he had to wipe his Reddit account because someone found it and it spread around campus 😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

I am not trolling!

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Anonymous #6 5w

😭oh I’ve met several people like this

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

We gave you an answer. Once again are you going to be receptive to our responses or are you just going to assume and keep saying we didn't give you an answer?

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Anonymous OP 5w

If u met me irl, u wouldn’t know I’m like this

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Believe me we can tell. I can tell

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Sometimes. But also witnessing deaths, other forms of violence. Pretty much almost any situation where your adrenaline is negatively kicked into high gear

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Anonymous #1 5w

Why do more women report trauma?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Their brains process things different and actually process what happened instead of closing it away

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Anonymous OP 5w

Oh, interesting. I didn’t know that

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Anonymous #1 5w

Do u know me irl?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Pretty basic psychology

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You asked us what kind of trauma women experience and we said that it could be anything and you continued assuming that it was things like sexual assault, men, rejection, etc. Im not gonna sit here while you play stupid games trying to figure out your left from right

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Anonymous OP 5w

I don’t study psychology…

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Anonymous #1 5w

How would I know women’s psychology?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

It’s not just women’s psychology. That’s how any trauma is formed. Just like how many people who serve in wars get ptsd

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Are you going to continue asking stupid questions or are you able to actually accept that you need to work on yourself? Cause this shit is getting annoying. If you want to continue the conversation stop with the "whats a what" like questions

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Anonymous OP 5w

But women don’t serve in wars as much as men do, hence my question of where the trauma comes from

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You can easily google that

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yes ma’am 🫡. To address one of ur earlier comments, I don’t care that much abt superficial traits. I just want a girl who’s comparable to myself attractiveness wise

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

We’ve told you. It’s not our fault if you’re either too illiterate to read it or too careless to process. We’ve answered your annoying questions and received bullshit responses. You wanna know the answer to your questions look it up. Do some research, it’s not hard

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Anonymous OP 5w

It’s hard for me to talk abt this. I’m trying not to be argumentative

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You’re more than welcome to leave. You have your answers

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Then take a break since you can handle this conversation without being argumentative

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Anonymous #1 5w

We’re not trying to argue either but it gets very repetitive and annoying when no progress is being made

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Anonymous OP 5w

What I rlly want to talk abt is whether I can know if working on myself will pay off. If I’m not like this, would I even be able to attract my looksmatch anyway?

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Anonymous OP 5w

Fr, it lowkey just feel disrespectful

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yes. Working on yourself will pay off

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Anonymous #1 5w

Literally tho. Like he’s asking questions and we’re giving actually answers.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

The biggest thing to work on that instantly improves attractiveness is mindset. The more genuinely confident you are, the more attractive you are. Also a lot of people won’t say it but if we’re being honest, try not to be too overweight as well

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Anonymous #6 5w

I’m skinny

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Anonymous #6 5w

Weight and hairstyle/hair health are the two most noticeable things when you first look at a person looks wise, so as long as you’re already doing basic hygiene, those two things come next I think

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Anonymous OP 5w

Then when he's called out on it he does the whole "what? I was just asking a question". Bros a grad student in history he knows how to do a little research writing his 20-22 page tnr double space chicago turban style 17th or 18th edition full note paper

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Anonymous #1 5w

Have we had a class together? Lol

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Hush the adults are talking.

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Anonymous #6 5w

And in my opinion it’s how you carry yourself. If you act genuine and open it tends to be more attractive

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Anonymous #1 5w

😂 you mean the adults that actually listen and give thought out replies?

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Anonymous #1 5w

U rlly gonna do me like that? 😭

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yes

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Anonymous OP 5w

I am multiple years younger than you and haven’t thought about acting this way since I was 12

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Anonymous OP 5w

I‘m neurodivergent. Not an excuse, but that‘s part of it

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yes lmao

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I am also neurodivergent with a slew of other mental health conditions

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Anonymous OP 5w

I graduated hs and started college during Covif

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

*covid

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I didn‘t have the college experience for half of undergrad

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Same, and you don't see me acting like this. Are you going to continue making excuses?

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Anonymous #1 5w

It‘s hard for me, ok

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I started high school then. Which is generally where more happens developmentally.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Yea buddy. It’s hard for everyone. You don’t get a free pass

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You're sitting here making excuses for the way that you're acting. If its that hard for you then consider therapy to help you sort out your problems

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Anonymous #1 5w

I want ppl to care

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Then with all due respect, be somebody they want to care about. People care about you, family and friends both.

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Anonymous #1 5w

What every other person who has issues and wants to change does.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I rlly have issues?

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

I‘m just lonely

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Everyone has issues

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Anonymous OP 5w

I can‘t tell my family and friends I‘m an incel

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Buddy. Stop playing the victim card. You’re not fooling anyone other than yourself. If you want to change then do it

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

And now we're getting back into the pity party. We have come full circle

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Anonymous OP 5w

I don‘t want to tell a therapist I‘m an incel either. Nobody cares or sympathizes with us

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Figure it out its not our responsibility to figure it out for you.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

We’re not here to validate your feelings or tell you want to do. If you want help get it.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Then what r u here for? 😭

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

To answer questions. Meaning questions that aren't stupid. We are not your therapist, we do not owe you anything. If you ask me we've given you enough to figure it out. Its up to you actually do it

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Anonymous #1 5w

Ok. Therapy. And?

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Anonymous #1 5w

As far as I know, women still will want someone more attractive than me

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Figure it out. Read the whole conversation like you would a historical document for class. If we're going to continue with the stupid questions I will walk away.

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You will never know what a woman wants unless you ask her. I know many women who date men that to most of society are not conventionally attractive and they are happy. Looks are not everything to women

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Anonymous #1 5w

Print it out and annotate it if you must

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Anonymous #1 5w

That was not a stupid question

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Most if your questions have been

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Anonymous OP 5w

I don’t know how to phrase stuff

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Stop making excuses. Women don’t like excuses. Own up to your shit

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Anonymous OP 5w

So I have to hope that women will date me regardless of looks? 😭

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Most women DO NOT CARE

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Anonymous OP 5w

I would honestly stop responding now bc this is going nowhere

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Anonymous #1 5w

It’s pissing me off at this point. Which is as probably his whole reason of doing this. It was entertainment for a while

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Anonymous OP 5w

No. I just want to feel like there is hope for me

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Anonymous OP 5w

Ya’ll rlly don’t care abt looks? I honestly can’t fathom that

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

K

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

Stfu

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Anonymous #2 5w

U don’t know what it’s like to feel like there’s no hope

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Anonymous #2 5w

Like fuck dude. Get a life or something dear God!

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Anonymous civilwar 5w

You're assuming a lot here. We've tried to tell you but you won't listen. And with that this is my last response to you. I really hope that you get the help you need

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