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Genuine question as a man with a smaller penis will I ever actually find someone who values me?
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Anonymous 3w

Yeah. Men care a lot more about penis size than the majority of women do.

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Anonymous 3w

yes real normal ppl dont care abt these things

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Anonymous 3w

I prefer smaller 🤷🏻‍♀️ but I don’t tend to like the guys that have smaller. Toxic insecurity is a turnoff for me and if I don’t like someone as a person they’re never getting near my pants.

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Anonymous 3w

Someone who likes you isn’t only valuing you for your penis. They’ll actually like YOU as a person. Your laugh, your smile, your personality, and all the things that make you you. Thinking all you are to someone or have to offer is a penis, that that’s the only thing someone could like you for, or that your size the only way someone could enjoy you sexually is the actual issue.

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Anonymous 3w

Yes, for the millionth time

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Anonymous 3w

Most women do not care nearly as much about stuff like that as men do.

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Anonymous 3w

Sure

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Anonymous 3w

yes

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Anonymous 3w

Never!

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Anonymous 3w

Not sexually

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Anonymous 3w

Im sure you will

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

This 1000%

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

So just fml

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

I have no confidence bc I have small d so how am I supposed to get over that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Bc not everyone is like you and some people care

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If they care that much they just arnt the right person for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Not fml. What I mean is the guys that are small tend to be really insecure. Reassurance insecure is fine. I like hyping up a partner 🤷🏻‍♀️ But a lot are toxic. They seem to want to punish the world and their partner. To convince themselves that they are every bit as detestable as they think others think they are. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy. But it’s a choice to be that. You can go to therapy, work on every element of yourself and be a person someone wants to be with

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

*work your personality and those elements of yourself that aren’t reduced to penis size. You’re a whole ass person. Act it.

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