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do any other conventionally unattractive women feel like they need to be hyper-polite and accommodating 24/7 so nobody insults their appearance? it's sooo normal to call someone ugly/whatever the second they're slightly rude or "off" and i'm terrified
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Anonymous 3w

I’ve always been a people pleaser and I’m sure part of it is because I’ve known I have to make up for something

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Anonymous 3w

I got to a point where I realized people who throw around insults like that are not people to be concerned about and also it’s very shallow anyway and doesn’t actually reflect anything of you

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Anonymous 3w

Yes absolutely. I was made fun of so much even when I did that so I had to actively unteach myself out of it.

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Anonymous 3w

me bc i’m fat and weird looking

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Anonymous 3w

Yea I’m pretty attractive as a dude n kinda realized im hyper polite to women for the same reason cus I ain’t a 10/10, just gotta live w it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

What is ugly? What is inside is what’s important and the right person will see that. Hyper-polite is trying too hard. Anyone who calls you ugly is a piece of shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

yeah we know it's shitty, but avoiding mockery is way more logical than whatever idealism this is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Well I don’t try hard it’s just who I am

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