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Is it fucked up for me not wanting to go down on my gf anymore? Considering she doesn’t like going down on me.

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Anonymous 7w

I feel like its petty to do it as a retaliation but if you dont want to to something sexually you shouldnt do it

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Anonymous 7w

I thinks it’s fair. But it really depends on why she doesn’t want to go down on you. Have you tried asking her why?

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Anonymous 7w

I think that’s fair, if it’s not something you’re super into and she doesn’t want to do the same for you, you shouldn’t be expected to keep doing it

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Anonymous

#1 7w

I do agree, but I feel like if I continued it will grow some resentment in me? Cuz I feel like I’m the only one who cares about her pleasure and not vice versa

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Anonymous

OP 7w

Have you had a heart to heart with her? Because if you stop without communication thats only gonna grow resentment in her rather than you

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Anonymous

#1 7w

I have expressed to her that I wasn’t sexually satisfied and feel like I’m doing all the heavy lifting. She says she would very much like to do more, but never does and nothing changes…

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Anonymous

OP 7w

It sounds like you need to follow up, which is frustrating, but necessary as to avoid that resentment. With sex its tricky to balance worrying about feeling entitled to sex but also feeling undesired without having the sex you want to be having

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Anonymous

#1 6w

Yeahh which is really frustrating 😓

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Anonymous

#3 6w

I have, she says it’s the taste of my precum/cum. But I feel like this changed only recently since in the beginning of the relationship she didn’t necessarily have a problem? And my diet is better now also

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