Well first, feeling that way (especially after a long relationship) is totally normal; rest assured that your love life isn’t over and that there is another man out there for you who is better! Best thing you can do right now is take some time off to heal. Try writing a letter that’s addressed to your ex; saying whatever you feel needs to be said and burn it. listen to sad music (helps process the emotions and feel validated), meditate, and go spend time doing something you love.

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Feeling comfortable with being alone is so important to alter being comfortable being in a relationship again. Use this time to find yourself (it sounds corny). Pick up a new hobby, learn about something you’re passionate about, spend time with friends, make new friends. Focus on YOU so you can be the best version of yourself

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when my first relationship ended i cried not because it was over but because i thought i gave up the only person who would ever love me. we are four years later, no relationships since but Im so much happier single, my best advice is to be happy that you have alone time, time to do exactly what you want and not have to constantly consider another person

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