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As a guy I just wanna apologize. I’m so sorry for everything
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Anonymous 1w

Not a question. Also it's not your fault some guys are weird just like it's not women's fault some women are weird. As long as you're being a good person that's the best you can do

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Anonymous 1w

Holy pick me

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Anonymous 1w

I can’t believe you did 9/11. Who paid you?

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Anonymous 1w

The timing… I was just thinking about how much I hate men’s disgusting, entitled behavior. I have… 3? that I fully trust. I hate that the world is like this. I can’t even confidently tell women that I have full confidence in my own brother, and that’s really sad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I am sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

OP is a cringe bot 🤖

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

Why don’t u trust ur brother?

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Anonymous replying to -> foolwhoislearning 6d

95% of men who tried to have sex with women in the last two years resorted to coercive behavior. My brother left a condom in the car one day, and he’s in a frat. It would be naive for me to expect that the men in my immediate family are not part of the coercive 95%. Especially given what frats are known for. I can’t properly vet my own family members because I don’t see them when they’re alone with a sex partner— that would be gross.

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Anonymous replying to -> foolwhoislearning 6d

I wish I could trust men. It is heartbreaking that I can’t. It is the saddest thing in the world watching people that you love get manipulated and peer pressured into becoming people who don’t care.

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Anonymous replying to -> foolwhoislearning 6d

Mostly when I think about the men in my life and the state of the world, I feel grief and rage. It doesn’t need to be this way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

Where’d u get the 95% stat?

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Anonymous replying to -> foolwhoislearning 6d

From the study “Isolate, inebriate, …” type that in a search engine along with “95% of men” and it should pop up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

this gotta be ragebait 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

Look it up. The study is open access. You can read it easily online.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

I really wish I was lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

You have no idea how it feels to read actual research showing clear evidence of widespread betrayal on this scale. As someone whose solution to almost every question is the scientific method. You think I want this to be true? I wish I could wake up tomorrow and have all this truth just be a bad dream, but it’s not. It’s reality, and it sucks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

You are blatantly lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

I really wish I was https://pureadmin.qub.ac.uk/ws/portalfiles/portal/682025286/isoooooooo.pdf

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

Here’s the full citation O'Sullivan, L. F., & Ronis, S. T. (2026). Isolate, inebriate, intimidate, repeat: high rates of sexual force against women are reported when young men given anonymous surveys. Journal of Interpersonal Violence. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1177/08862605261432630

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

But I don’t need to convince you. I don’t even care what you think. You’ve probably done something on this list and just don’t think it’s bad. If you’ve ever lied to get sex from someone who said no, or asked repeatedly, you’re guilty of the things in this study and therefore not worth interacting with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

“you don’t believe my study so you’ve probably coerced someone into have sex” nice argument bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

No, it’s “you’re a man so you’ve probably coerced someone into sex”. Because again, 95%

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

95% of men do not try to coerce someone into sex. Thats just a braindead delusional take.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

Ok, you’re a DARVO man. I gave you a full citation, a link, key words to search. I literally cannot baby you any more than that. If you’re incapable of questioning your own presuppositions and willing to gaslight before you bother to look at sources, you’re not worth talking to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

I’m not a DARVO man. 95% is an absurd number that isn’t realistic. Sorry that I’m not brainwashed like you are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

Maybe if you actually read the study you’re citing you’d realize it isn’t talking about 95% of all men: “This research was designed to focus on men who admit to having intentionally and knowingly sexually aggressed against a woman who they knew did not want sex nor consented to it…” They are basically asking self-reported rapists if they’ve ever forced/coerced a woman into sex. What do you expect? Now do a study asking the same questions to self-reported “nice guy” virgins. 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6d

weiners

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