
it depends on their height and their body in general. saying you prefer a partner under a certain weight is kinda silly considering everyone has different fat distributions, muscle mass, water retention, etc. you can say you prefer a more fit partner but weight is variable towards everyone
for wanting my man to be able to protect us if he absolutely has to? 💀 grow tf up im still independent and perfectly capable of defending myself, nowhere did i say id be lost in this big scary world without a tall strong man to protect tiny innocent little me 😂 but i can still prefer a MAN who isnt scared to fight, over one whod just let shit happen to us. not patriarchy whatsoever