Anonymous #1 8w

It’s a few with me. Social anxiety, shy and rarely go out

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Anonymous OP 8w

Yeah no. That’s a red flag for me bc I like guys who are extroverted and social. The only reason I would be okay with a virgin is if he is waiting till marriage

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Anonymous OP 8w

No offense to you tho

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Anonymous #1 8w

The fact that it’s a red flag for someone to not be a virgin is disgusting to me. Why tf do u care how many women he slept with?

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Anonymous #1 8w

What if the person just wanted to wait until they found the right person

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Anonymous #2 8w

I wouldn’t care if I was also a virgin but I would want to be with someone who’s as experienced as me. I’ve been with a virgin before and there’s a huge difference, not just in sex but emotional stuff as well

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Anonymous #3 8w

That’s also a good reason. That’s kinda goes along with what I said abt waiting till marriage

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Anonymous #2 8w

Also if I’m dating someone I 100% would need to know how many women he’s slept with. Not because I will judge them on it but why wouldn’t I want to know that? I want to know everything about the person I’m with

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Anonymous #1 8w

Right but the way u made it sound like its the deciding factor out of all factors

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Anonymous #2 8w

No I didn’t, that’s just how you took it. He said he’s a virgin bc he’s socially awkward /shy. I would never date anyone like that. Not because he’s a virgin but because he’s not social. Which is why my very first comment said “it depends”.

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