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This has to be the most ignorant thing I have ever read in my life
33 upvotes, 13 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "This has to be the most ignorant thing I have ever read in my life"
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Anonymous 5w

That is true about sexually assaulted men everyone says that he’s lucky when he didn’t want it and it gets brushed under the rug if the perpetrators are female and not male

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Anonymous 5w

My dad, me, my best friend, my other best friend, have all been sexually assaulted by women, some of us numerous times. Typically it happened on more than one incident as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It is and isnt- society will say they are lucky but the judicial system is doing a much better job at holding everyone accountable. Cops are being fired and or imprisoned, female teachers are getting prison time for inappropriate behavior with minors, etc.. yes any dude that hasnt gotten some will jokingly say “come on man let her have some fun or ill take your spot” but today’s society has also become more aware of buffoonery and if a women is actually overstepping her bounds, HER FRIENDS will

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Even step in to stop her. Like a drunk girl being kept in line by her more sober friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Keep in mind there is still much room for improvement in all areas of keeping people accountable regardless of skin color, gender, religion, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

The thing is we don’t talk about it. Only people super super close to us ever know about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I’m not kidding every single one of us were assaulted by older women when we were minors.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

All I can say is that if people speak up, it will be addressed. I got it, it’s a tough subject but you have talked to people meaning you can talk to the proper ones that can actually deal with your situation. You cant expect anything to be done about it if you don’t speak up because the perp more than likely won’t. You can definitely be mad at the people that wronged you but at this point you are doing more harm to yourself than good by not telling the authorities.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Tbh I feel like men are more likely to be sexually assaulted/raped by other men than women. Not saying that the latter doesn’t happen, I just think that statistically these crimes are more likely perpetrated by other men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Good point, also could be a timeline difference as well? Women may prey on younger boys and men may prey on young adult women? I don’t know the statistics and could be very wrong but hopefully I’m getting the idea across lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Obviously there are a lot of male same-sex assaults too with adolescent boys too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Mmmm I don’t even think the statistics for women praying on young boys is any way comparable to stats for men preying on younger girls. If anything, boys are once again more likely to be victimized by men. Again, not saying it doesn’t happen with women, just that it’s very rare. I feel like we hear more about women preying on boys on the news bc of its rarity but also as like some misogynistic propaganda perpetrated by the far right.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Valid points. I don’t normally prefer to bring politics into topics but it seems like it could be relevant here. I am just not educated on this topic enough to say any particular party does this or that. I definitely agree that men seem to prey upon anyone they could overpower in general. I was like 14 and had some old dude like in his 40’s try dm’ing me nudes. Shit was wild. I told my parents and they introduced me to social media cleanses and made sure I was ok😂🤷🏼‍♂️

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