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Ask Women 42w
Would it be fair to assume that most of dating is performative?
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Anonymous 42w

Maybe, but if you genuinely like someone (or they genuinely like you), you'll do things that are sincere and selfless but would probably look performative from the outside, so it could be hard to distinguish

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Anonymous 42w

Wdym by performative? Ime no but who is performing for who

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Anonymous 42w

Yes

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