Anonymous #1 4w

Well yeah lol but I mean the same women will swear they aren’t and otherwise “act” or “be” super progressive an accepting, I’m genuinely asking if yall have like friends like this or something. Cause I don’t understand how that tracks to them lmfao

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Anonymous OP 4w

I think it’s “not homophobic” in a similar logic way to like saying I love gay people and think they should have all the rights but don’t kiss around me”. Not that same way but similar logic idk how to explain it

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Anonymous #3 4w

If you think only gay people shouldn’t be allowed to have public displays of affection that’s not believing in equal rights😭

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Anonymous #4 4w

I completely agree, I feel like we all have seen someone say something like that and swear they’re not homophobic

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Anonymous OP 4w

i've def heard women be homohobic (biphobic in this case) but i have never heard it from anyone who actually is progressive. it's usually from yknow the type of girl you'd expect to hear it from lmao

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Anonymous #3 4w

Yea I can kinda get that, but I think those people knowingly pretend they’re accepting when in reality they are literally disgusted by gay people, and anyone saying that tends to be either older than 35+ or as uneducated as someone of that age. Meanwhile Ive gone on dates w one of the local ally activist girlbosses and when I told her I was bi she called me a slur for “not telling her sooner” lol

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Anonymous OP 4w

Idk why I typed dates it was one date and I left her to pay after that lmfao but it’s kind indicative of my broader point that tons of seemingly and self-seemingly (if that’s a term) progressive women in our generation see it as a “preference” to assume bi guys are gay (because it’s not the first time I’ve had a similar reaction from a woman of that type, I only date progressive relatively outspoken people)

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Anonymous OP 4w

Personally I don’t know anyone who’s progressive who acts like this post thankfully but I have seen a few people online who say that they wouldn’t date a bi man. The slur is especially crazy though. Ig these people come in all types, even generally progressive.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

They can feel however they want. Doesn’t mean it’s not homophobia

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Anonymous #8 4w

Didn’t like that the bi guy had his weener in another man’s asshole bc of poop particles (and that shit is a real thing) so I kinda understand the logic but she was rude asf about it and fr hurt my friends feelings. I honestly thought he was fucking around abt liking lady boys until later in the night. Anyways that’s my fuckin dawg, and she ended up apologizing and now they are cool but don’t hook up anymore.

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Anonymous #1 4w

Look at my comment below fuckers

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Anonymous #8 4w

chill. no one said it never happens, obviously women are homophobic too

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Anonymous #5 4w

Tf are you yapping about

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Anonymous #8 4w

Hey so that’s not logic at all it’s just homophobia, congrats on defending a person who was homophobic to your friend!

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Anonymous #8 4w

Bruh that’s just gross of her. And no it’s not rly understandable logic. Unless you’re disgusting you will be washing your dick between hooking up with a man and getting with a woman. As for STDs, they are always a valid concern but bi guys should be testing between partners the same as straight guys, STDS happen to all genders and orientations. It’s about the person not the sexuality,

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Anonymous #8 4w

I don’t get it bc like men can do anal with women too

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Anonymous #3 4w

No right like? Everyone should just be practicing good hygiene and getting regular STD checks.

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Anonymous #8 4w

Id be icked out over the transmisogyny but it sounds more like this chick is just homophobic

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Anonymous #9 4w

The ladyboy thing kinda confuses me tbh, like isn’t it 99% a thing in Thailand and places around there. And like being trans but also kinda its own thing? Like I don’t think most trans people would appreciate being called a ladyboy and idk if that’s what they were doing in this or not

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Anonymous #2 4w

yall just be calling everything homophobia lmfao imagine trying to force girls to like bi men by calling them homophobic

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

There is no reason for a woman to not like bi men EXCEPT homophobia. As long as it’s a respectful faithful man then being by will have LITERALLY no impact on the relationship. The ONLY reasons a woman may not be into bi men are rooted in homophobic assumptions.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

If a man being bi makes you feel “icky” towards him then I think you need to dig into why

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Anonymous #3 4w

Yes it is definitely a thing but the term is highly fetishistic of transfeminine bodies. The term reduces transfem ppls worth into how sexually appealing they are and inherently doubts trans womanhood. There is def a distinction but the misogyny comes in like in this case of the commenter and the guy perceiving that attraction as gay. Does that make sense idk if i explained it well

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Anonymous #3 4w

i lived in thailand for a while and the ladyboys fully own their identity as ladyboys and will tell you they are ladyboys and not women and that they used to be a man lmao

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Anonymous #2 4w

with this logic if he was attracted to animals i am now beastphobic LMAO

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Anonymous #9 4w

Yeah I have a feeling he is attracted to trans women in general, seems a odd and offensive choice to say when I’m assuming he isn’t in Thailand

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

Seriously. You are such a horrible conservative pos I’m just blocking you

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Anonymous #3 4w

theres doesnt HAVE to be a reason bro. i can dislike a man for ANY reason. i can dislike that he is attracted to girls with tattoos, which i dont have. does that make me tattoophobic?

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Anonymous #3 4w

And yeah being attracted to exclusively trans women and cis women makes you straight

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

You should be able to answer some reasoning why you would be interested in a guy but do a 180 if he said he was bi, not liking someone “just because” is shit avoidant reasoning, even if you have to actually think for a second

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

Oh for sure but many ppl who fetishize trans women call them ladyboys outside of that context. Its like with femboys and traps and all those other terms in many contexts in the us that is highly transmisogynistic to call a trans woman that and in my experience its done intentionally to exaggerate the taboo of trans bodies :(

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

I can actually answer why I wouldn’t be attracted to a man who’s attracted to animals, because that’s actually disgusting unlike being bi

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

How you hate bi dudes???😭😭 you like men too right??💀💀

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Anonymous OP 4w

Unless, take a minute here, it’s because you hate gay people

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Anonymous OP 4w

i don’t hate bi dudes lmao just wouldn’t date one

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Anonymous OP 4w

you can just say “you hate gay people” as a response to literally everything lmaooo

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Anonymous #3 4w

i wouldnt date a bi guy bc i dont like that he likes dicks lmao extra stuff to worry about

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 4w

Yes.. that’s called… homophobia…

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Anonymous OP 4w

dating whoever i personally want to date does not make me homophobic 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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