it’s wild that she did that instead of talking to you. yes, you’re right to be mad at her. but if she expressed concern about you being friends w a past crush after knowing that she liked you back, that’s not a good look either.

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You have no business talking to your ex especially if she likes you. It may seem to her that you are leading her on. What your GF did is petty, but if she wants to be friends with her ex now I don’t think it’s right to be mad at her. She’s just playing that game you started.

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i think you should have done a better job listening to the concerns she had- if my bf was still talking to his “ex crush” whom he knows still likes him while knowing i’m uncomfy, i’d be pissed. however, what she did was petty too so u have a right to be upset, but i think you need to understand where she’s coming from too and yall needa come to a compromise

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fighting fire with fire only makes the flames grow larger

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So I usually resort to reflecting someone’s energy only after communication fails the first time. If I tell you something bothers me and you don’t do anything about it or listen, then I will test your ability to take that sort of behavior. It’s not to get back at you, it’s to see what you do. If I get to that point, it’s because I’m seriously considering breaking up and can learn things about you that help me make that choice.

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No it’s called karma

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