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how do i tell the guy im hooking up with that it hurts 😭 i can handle a little bit of pain but this is like unbearable
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Anonymous 2w

do not feel bad or guilty about speaking up. if you're not enjoying it, it's pointless, so tell it like it is

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Anonymous 2w

you don’t even need to share just tell him you’re not looking to continue hooking up

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Anonymous 2w

Be open and honest. Men want you to have a good time. Also, try more foreplay and lube

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Anonymous 2w

congratulations

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Anonymous 2w

“Hey I need to tell you something. It hurts when we have sex.” He will probably want to fix that. If not, no need to stick around.

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Anonymous 2w

What do you mean? He’s not your bf or husband… Either stop hooking up or tell him what you need otherwise what’s the point?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i meant more like how do i phrase it???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Dude shut up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

and for the record, don't feel the need to handle a LITTLE pain either unless you're into that. it shouldn't be a matter of accommodating him not knowing what he's doing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

THIS.

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