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I need some advice. She dumped me because we didn’t get to see each other enough (class and work schedules didn’t align). I offered to see her for any amount of time any day, and when we did hang out she was only on her phone, full ignoring me
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Anonymous 2d

it sounds like she didn't value the effort you were putting in

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Anonymous 2d

I say it’s not your fault and it’s for the best. She was fully ignoring the effort you made to see her and used that as an excuse to breakup. She was not truly interested in you

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Anonymous 2d

She was the love of my life but I don’t know what else I could’ve done

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Anonymous 2d

Damn. Brush it off. 🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

How do I cope with that? We were together for a year and it was the best year I could imagine. For it to just come crashing down overnight messed with my head. I miss her but I’m not reaching out, I’m lonely but I don’t want a rebound

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I’d take the time to fully get over her. She didn’t value you the way you valued her. She’s not worth beating yourself up over. Better ppl will come along

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

The only thing I have left from her are a couple letters and the pictures we took. I’ll get rid of the letters at some point and I’ll definitely downsize on the pics, but she brought so much into my life I don’t want to forget some of the memories we shared. It’s been 2 months since it happened and I’m just in this weird in between where I just feel alone

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