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Girls somebody help me change my aesthetic in life i’m tired of plain boring leggings and sweatshirts i want cute outfits like skirts cute tops i wanna girl soft girl/coquette but never know where to shop or what to get advice!
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Anonymous 1d

make a pinterest board and then go thrifting and try to find stuff that matches the board!

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Anonymous 1d

real talk: prepare to spend a while building your style slowly (years!), don’t marry the aesthetic (wiggle room for self expression allows you to stick to one style that’s uniquely yours, inspired by others) and to know yourself well. i agree about pinterest but also take note of what you like irl !! take inspo from books & shows & musicians & hobbies as well as keeping track of what shapes/patterns/cuts/fabrics you actually like wearing. personal style can’t be prescribed, it has to be made

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Anonymous 1d

Invest in nice dainty jewelry and bows and pink and white clothing sparkly sandals soft girl/coquette is pretty simple to get into

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Anonymous 1d

Get a few stable pieces, get some jewelry you think is cute- buy some hair accessories

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It seems simple and easy to get into Ig my issue is just like “oh this looks cute but would it still look cute on me” or like piecing outfits together

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

<3

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