Omg YES I’ve never heard anyone else say that but I know exactly what you mean. For over a year after my first breakup, any time I cuddled with a guy it was like a 50/50 of whether I would suddenly have to go puke. It did eventually go away

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Yes. Listen to you gut - and by that I mean listen to your body

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yes! when i was dating my ex not only did i feel icked out like mentally even tho there wasn’t anything really “wrong”, but i also broke out really bad and got UTIs every time we had sex no matter what precautions i was taking, and never had that with anyone else. it’s real!!

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Yes every time a guy is bad for me my body rejects and that’s how I know he’s not the one for me

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absolutely it can. from personal experience it 100% can. your body will tell you what's right and what's wrong. trust me. listen to your body

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YES. my last relationship lasted two years and i got that nauseous feeling every time we so much as held hands. needless to say, it was a very stressful relationship and eventually did not work out

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Possibly, however I just get really nervous and sick to my stomach hanging out with a guy for the first time so who knows

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With my ex we tried to have sex like 3 or 4 times and each time my body just wouldn’t let it happen and I’m very grateful for that because he was actually a POS.

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It could be that but I’d also look for other factors. Once I was just allergic to a guy’s cologne lol

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yes and then i came out as a lesbian..

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Listen to your body sis I once was with a guy that I got yeast infections everytime I was with him he was very clean got tested everything and was with me all day everyday my body just did not like him always felt nauseous and dizzy as soon as I left him I was fine

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yeah my sex drive with my ex went away for consecutive months and he thought i 1) hated him or 2) was cheating. no my body was just rejecting lol

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trust yourself

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yes! before i met my ex i never had issues with my period or acne but as our relationship kept going on i kept getting my period and horrible acne. The feeling of being nauseous came too. After we broke up my period stopped (dw i was not pregnant) and my acne went away

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After a breakup my friend had the clearest skin I’ve seen them with. No change aside from the breakup

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Yes! Was dating a guy who was a friend first and really enjoyed spending time with him before we got together. But after we did it was so stressful and I always felt on edge and my anxiety going when spending time together. I had to end it cause it was too much stress for me

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Your body’s physical reactions can be tied to how you’re emotionally feeling… it’s not your body by itself rejecting them. That’s not how it works. You are subconsciously not into them

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Maybe u lesbian

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Towards the end of my one relationship sex felt like a chore? Like it didn’t feel loving it felt like we HAD to do it, and I never wanted to be around him. Ngl I was thinking I was a lesbian when we broke up.

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Oh yes, 100% I went through that with my ex-boyfriend and it’s literally your body‘s way of telling you that you’re done and that you need to leave. It’s like your subconscious mind is telling you to go.

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google discernment

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Yesss after our first date when I saw him again I was just nauseous and irritated. I didn’t even want him to touch me.

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Yes it’s a real thing. But if you actually like the guy it could be nerves. I’ve experienced both with different people but you can usually tell the difference

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YES its a guy feeling. listen to her!’

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was thinking about breaking up with my ex, threw up a LOT, decided that was my body telling me to do it, and i'm so glad i did

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this is absolutely a thing!!! also if you end up with a lot of utis/yeast infections and it’s not something you usually deal with, it could be your body rejecting a man

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Absolutely yes, leave

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Are you sure this isn’t allergies to anything he’s around or subconscious anxiety

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Bro my ex was like that. He would come over and literally get nauseous and throw up. Anytime I was with him. But he was the one who wanted to get in a relationship. I dumped him after 3 months

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it’s possible he’s also just not a clean person. i used to talk to a guy and every time i went over to his i was violently ill but if i was at my place alone, i’d get better quick. even if he came to my spot id feel like crap. turns out he showered like once a week and never cleaned trash out of his room so i was fr getting poisoned.

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yess I would have that all happen all the time like my body would just feel absolutely weird and everytime that happened the person was bad new for me

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yes yes yes

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idk one time i hung out with a guy after kissing him for the first time i literally woke up the next morning with a deathly sickness that gave me mucus a cough a sore throat and not only that but also it affected my eyes too and made them all red and nasty and discharge and mucus would come out of them every morning and it did not go away until i stopped hanging out with him…

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last year i started to talk to this guy who would basically lie all the time and stuff like that but i also started to break out crazy during this

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Believe it!

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EXTREMLY RELATABLE, every time i kissed this guy id have some type of dump after

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Literally had this with my ex . First time hanging with her I threw up cuz I was so stressed out and feeling never really went away until I stopped thinking all together so yeah. This affects men too yall.

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Yeah I’ve heard it’s a thing like u can just get rlly bad breakouts if a dude ain’t for u

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Yep I had reoccurring UTIs when i was w my ex and i tried everything to stop them. With my current man I haven’t had any and the only “preventative” thing i do now is pee after 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Obviously your body is trying to tell you something. Stop seeing him.

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Yea I’ve felt anxious around and gotten bad acne when I was with guys that were bad

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girl remove yourself. tf.

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100%

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feeling sick can mean theyre spiritually not good for u

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Ok, foid.

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