Well because I know I’m not whore. Ppl wouldn’t guess my body count is zero by the way I dress but it is. At the end of the day the way you dress doesn’t define you. I also know friends that dress very modestly but have “immodest” relationships (not sure how to word it lol).

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For me was just like aligning the fact that I thought it looks good on other girls so why not me and then pushing myself with little style things I thought looked good but was nervous to try one at a time.

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Start with clothes that you like and aren’t sure about. It’s okay to try something out. Obviously in a religious upbringing it’s harder but even just wearing it around the house is a good start in feeling more comfortable with it

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this is easy for me to say because I wasn't raised religious but try to remember that showing skin is not promiscuous. conservative men want to portray it that way because it makes THEM aware of urges they want to pretend they don't have, but it's just clothes. you're not doing anything "whorish" by dressing a certain way. (not that there's anything wrong with acting like that if you want to, but that doesn't sound like it's your issue here)

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Also had a religious upbringing, I intentionally wore the clothes that made me feel that way so I could feel free to actually wear what I wanted to without that brainwashing later on

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Real talk: Look your sexuality straight in the face. Doing so helped me a lot. Listen to sexual songs, read smutty fanfic, anything you are comfortable with. Also, if you’re trying to get more comfy with your body in general, I suggest practicing at-home nudism if possible. Sometimes just chilling out in your most natural form can heal something in you.

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Very comfortable. I could probably go out in just underwear if legal. But I also have small boobs. Almost all my outfits are extremely “immodest”

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