Ask Women on Sidechat | What to do when your boyfriend of 3 months got a girls number to be friends and right before they were gonna go get food and chill at the beach he finally told her he has a gf but still wants to get to know her but then she declined?

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Ask Women 1d

What to do when your boyfriend of 3 months got a girls number to be friends and right before they were gonna go get food and chill at the beach he finally told her he has a gf but still wants to get to know her but then she declined?

Anonymous 1d

Ummmm if my man did that he wouldn’t be my man anymore. Being friends is fine but that def sounds like a date…. If she’s declining she was interested in him and def thought it was a date and not platonic.

Anonymous 1d

break up

Anonymous 1d

There was obviously some confusion. She may have thought he was single so he should probably mention he has a girlfriend earlier

Anonymous 20h

Well, she definitely thought it was romance. It sounds like he was pretty open about this with you though? If he acted in ways you weren’t blocked out of instead of hiding it, maybe he’s just stupidly oblivious. Buuuuut that’s just a ‘maybe’, yk? How did you learn about this stuff and how did he react? Not enough information

Anonymous

#1 21h

Yeah:( I saw the texts. She said “I don’t feel comfortable with there being attraction there” so she definitely thought he was flirting and it was a date is my guess too..

Anonymous

#4 20h

I saw the messages in his phone that’s how I know :( when I confronted him he said he just wanted a “friend”

Anonymous

OP 20h

Ouch, that’s pretty damning. I’m sorry, but it’s pretty clear. He’s disloyal, dump him.

Anonymous

OP 19h

he tried to cheat