Ask Women on Sidechat | ‘Jokingly’ told her that I might get clingy with a little “lol”. Thing is, I was not joking. She’s so busy and she doesn’t have time for a clingy bf, genuinely, what do I do?

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Ask Women 18w

‘Jokingly’ told her that I might get clingy with a little “lol”. Thing is, I was not joking. She’s so busy and she doesn’t have time for a clingy bf, genuinely, what do I do?

Anonymous 18w

i think you need to speak on it, not talking for two days can be normal but i think its easy to take 3 minutes to say how ur day was and go back to work, you guys dont seem like a good fit, especially if she isn’t matching the clingy

Anonymous 18w

find someone else

Anonymous 18w

I’ve kinda been on the other end of this. My bf fell in love way faster than I did. Sometimes it just takes time, and that’s something to communicate. We communicate multiple times a day, but we both have real reasons to worry about each other’s safety. I’m also busy a lot because I sign up for college classes like a kid in a candy shop. I take 1-2 months to grow strong feelings for a romantic partner, if that helps you gauge timing at all.

Anonymous

#4 18w

With us, there was a period of time where his feelings were way stronger than mine. That was kinda difficult because his feelings would lead him to snuggle smother me when I just wanted to read, and my lack of reciprocation sometimes hurt his feelings. Really, we just talked about it. Communication helped him realize that the difference didn’t mean I didn’t like him, and that we had to find a balance between snuggling and other activities.

Anonymous

#4 18w

I think I need to talk to her about it