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How can i tell I am attractive to girls like i know it’s uncommon but ive only been asked for my number a few times in person by girls i think i look good but in like a dude way idk shit about the female gaze
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Anonymous 7w

As a girl, if I find a guy even remotely attractive, unless you make any sort of effort to talk to me first, I’d b nervous. Also when I have “flirted” it was definitely with lots of jokes which from what I’ve heard a lot of other girls do as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

So then there is no way for me to know😭 i would make the first move but i dnt know like if a girl thinks i am like are there any signs ive seen some girls be so serious when they say they quickly glance at you and you should know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yeah glance but mainly signs are staring, joking, or sometimes j straight up coming up to u. But u don’t gotta go up and immediately flirt. Usually just a small complement from time to time is nice. Kinda j depends on the person. But also think abt the kinda person you would wanna flirt with and what they would do. I mean if it’s been longer than a a few weeks and neither of y’all have talked to eachother prob not it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I mean this isnt like with a specific instance in mind but like i constantly catch people looking at me but i can’t discern if u know its just a notmal human glance or not but i appreciate your advice i lowkey just gotta stop being such a scaredy cat

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Yeah no Fs I get that. I’m talking staring staring. Catching multiple glances over multiple days. Cause sometimes ppl just look esp if the fit fireeee lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

yea ive had that to but what if i just git something on my face😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Lol do you got something on yo face all tha time?

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