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Your opinions! What is a way I can meet a girl? I’m not in college, and my job field is not around any women So what are ways I can actually meet someone?
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Anonymous 4w

Get plugged into a church, some kind of club, or a community of some sort?

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Anonymous 4w

Go to events in your community, go to the library, spend time outdoors, ask your friends to introduce you to

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Anonymous 4w

Your best bet will probably be meeting people in hobby groups or through mutual friends

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Anonymous 4w

dating apps, starbucks, you could go to a college event or an event around your area

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Anonymous 4w

i feel the same way. i’m in college but a small one right now so i can’t meet any guys 💔 maybe we are close LOL

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Anonymous 4w

Mixers aren't an awful idea either. You can honestly look some up in your city and try going to one. You may not leave with a girlfriend but you could definitely try to leave with new friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I need to find friends too tho. I’m 20 and went to college for a year. But now I’m in a career I want to pursue. I just kinda feel like I’m at a standstill with other people lol

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

Only events I go to are car meets lol I can see if there’s other stuff around tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Look for hobby groups or talk to people at work

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

If your job has any work events people go to, try going to them even if you don’t know anyone already there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I work mostly with men in their 50’s 😂 and I’m 20, so I can’t go to them at the bar or anything yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I commented before too, but I feel like the only other hobby group I’d fit in with is a car community. And I don’t think that’s very popular with women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Have you considered trying new hobbies?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’m down to try anything really. But I actually want to enjoy it myself too. Yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’d say the chances are slim, but if you want to see, just dm me to take that out of the comments lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Maybe, but not sure that’s the kinda crowd I like to be around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But it might be worth a shot at this point

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

Suggesting the library to meet Gen z women or people in general is poor 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Why's that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Zero clue now that I think about it lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

For sure, but that’s why you try new things, you won’t know if you’ll enjoy it until you try

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

He said meet someone. I think the library is a good place to find people in general. Plus a lot of libraries do events in mine I know they have done: Reptile day (where they bring in reptiles) romance events, trivia, films-

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