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i lost my virginity almost 3 weeks ago, my period is now 8 days late. he pulled out and is “infertile”, but i was stupid and agreed to not using a condom. when should i worry, im only 18 so idk if its hormones or smth else
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Anonymous 23w

Take a test. You’re probably fine tho. Stress can make it late too. Also if a man says no to a condom he’s not worth getting with

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Anonymous 23w

I’d test just in case. But your period can always push itself back after sex. Especially during the first time. Periods can be irregular like that and it be totally normal

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Anonymous 23w

even if he is infertile, ALWAYS USE PROTECTION. stds r more common than you think

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Anonymous 23w

if he pulled out and didn't previously cum during your hookup, you are 99.999% not pregnant. just remember this anxiety and use protection in the future

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Anonymous 23w

just got my period. thank you everyone who helped

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Anonymous 23w

Chill thing 1 and thing 2. Don’t make me call the Thinga-ma-jigger and send you back to DR. Seuss. Did you take the test

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Anonymous 23w
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Anonymous 23w

lol. Not like that. I don’t know you and don’t want you.

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Anonymous 23w

We’re all waiting!!! DID YOU TAKE THE TEST. AM I GOING TO BE A UNCLE OR NOT!!!

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Anonymous 23w

Let me be the first to congratulate you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23w

but do you think birth control was involved?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

no birth control was not involved

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

you should probably take a test, no matter if he says he pulled out, like 3 said precum still can have semen in it, very low chance but no protection means it’s just your bodies natural defenses, a test can’t hurt just get like clear blue or something, can’t trust the pullout game especially since it’s your first time so it’s all new to you, just get a test and go from there, i’m not telling you this to freak you out but just so you have piece of mind and know what to do next

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

yeah thank you sm, i appreciate your help

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

stopppp no

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

that is so fucked up to say, i know you’re saying it as a joke but the poor girl is stressed over here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

thank you love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

just do all that 3 told you but it’s better you know instead of not know, planned parenthood offers a lot of women’s support so just tell them the situation and i’m sure they’ll also do everything that 3 told you to do and moving forward in the future i hope you take what i said to heart, if a guy doesn’t want to show you a recent test then that probably isn’t a good sign that you should be fucking with them and if you’re not on anything then you probably shouldn’t go raw, got it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 23w

how far back can it go?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Mine was only a week late when I lost my virginity and now instead of my period being in the middle of the month it’s at the end of the month

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

So tell us the GOOD NEWS when we finding out if it’s a BOY or GIRL!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

you just love being a dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

You can’t say that around her. That’s to soon. You have to be respectful!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

just don’t say anything, give the girl some space

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

Ok fine msg me then we will talk about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

you’re never getting a dm out of me talking like that, have some respect here

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

just stopping being a dick to the poor girl, she already has a lot on her plate

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23w

i’m about to block you just to stop seeing these comments

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

Congratulations

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

WOOOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

normally i wouldn’t be happy for this but this is cause for celebration

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23w

YESS thank you love

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23w

did you ever end up doing the stuff that 3 said to do?

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