Anonymous #1 4w

but do you think birth control was involved?

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Anonymous #2 4w

no birth control was not involved

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Anonymous #3 4w

his doctor told him he was infertile a few years ago. his last sexual partner was back in september, does that change anything?

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Anonymous OP 4w

you should probably take a test, no matter if he says he pulled out, like 3 said precum still can have semen in it, very low chance but no protection means it’s just your bodies natural defenses, a test can’t hurt just get like clear blue or something, can’t trust the pullout game especially since it’s your first time so it’s all new to you, just get a test and go from there, i’m not telling you this to freak you out but just so you have piece of mind and know what to do next

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Anonymous OP 4w

Nope, unless he did a fucking a test and I mean his sperm was sent off and tested at a lab, low sperm count is not no sperm count. Also nope infections just don’t disappear that’s why antibiotics are needed. I hope he isn’t so called “infertile” because of an infections cause they do that.

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Anonymous OP 4w

did he bring a paper with him saying he was infertile? usually some paperwork comes with that kind of test, so unless you saw it then this could just be a lie for you to let him go raw

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Anonymous #2 4w

yeah thank you sm, i appreciate your help

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Anonymous #3 4w

i think it was sent to a lab, idk for sure though, i didn’t see results

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Anonymous #2 4w

yeah i’ve been worried about that

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Anonymous OP 4w

Girl just go to planned parenthood, ask for a pregnancy test and a std panel swab.

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Anonymous OP 4w

i’m just giving you a guy’s perspective that nobody asked for, i always bring my std screening before i ever fuck anyone and there’s no way in hell i’m ever telling anyone i’m “infertile” a guy can literally get a vasectomy and still get someone pregnant while the chances are low it still happens, just do what 3 is telling you just for your piece of mind and never let a guy go raw unless you’re on something (even then you need to gauge the risks) or you’re ready for a kid

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Anonymous #5 4w

stopppp no

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Anonymous #2 4w

I second that and thank you for being in charge of your own health as well.

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Anonymous #3 4w

i’m not fucking anyone until i see a test and they see mine, piece of mind goes a long way

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Anonymous #2 4w

Preach we need more guys like you, I’ll even make it a date cause mfs be ready to lie with fake results. I don’t get understand playing with your health and someone else’s.

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Anonymous #3 4w

i also won’t be going raw in anyone until i see like bc or something, personally it’s for my piece of mind or the condom is staying on, but usually raw is just for relationships since i don’t really trust the efficacy of plan b

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Anonymous #5 4w

that is so fucked up to say, i know you’re saying it as a joke but the poor girl is stressed over here

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Anonymous #2 4w

thank you love

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Anonymous OP 4w

just do all that 3 told you but it’s better you know instead of not know, planned parenthood offers a lot of women’s support so just tell them the situation and i’m sure they’ll also do everything that 3 told you to do and moving forward in the future i hope you take what i said to heart, if a guy doesn’t want to show you a recent test then that probably isn’t a good sign that you should be fucking with them and if you’re not on anything then you probably shouldn’t go raw, got it?

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Anonymous #3 4w

thank you for your help

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Anonymous #6 4w

how far back can it go?

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Anonymous OP 4w

Mine was only a week late when I lost my virginity and now instead of my period being in the middle of the month it’s at the end of the month

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Anonymous OP 4w

So tell us the GOOD NEWS when we finding out if it’s a BOY or GIRL!

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Anonymous #5 4w

you just love being a dick

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Anonymous #2 4w

You can’t say that around her. That’s to soon. You have to be respectful!

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Anonymous #5 4w

just don’t say anything, give the girl some space

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Anonymous #2 4w

Ok fine msg me then we will talk about it

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Anonymous #5 4w

you’re never getting a dm out of me talking like that, have some respect here

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Anonymous #5 4w

just stopping being a dick to the poor girl, she already has a lot on her plate

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Anonymous #5 4w

i’m about to block you just to stop seeing these comments

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Anonymous OP 3w

Congratulations

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Anonymous OP 3w

WOOOO

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Anonymous #2 3w

normally i wouldn’t be happy for this but this is cause for celebration

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Anonymous #2 3w

YESS thank you love

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Anonymous OP 3w

did you ever end up doing the stuff that 3 said to do?

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