Start with a compliment on something they control like their outfit or whatnot and like that’s so cool where did you get it blah blah btw I’m so and so and then go from there

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If you wanna do it faster you can just walk up and ask, but if you have time just initiating little conversations will have her thinking about you. If they kinda know you like them, they’ll be more likely to consider you in the same light

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It’s easiest to approach someone in a group you’re already in like a club, class, etc. because there’s an expectation of social interaction. Next easiest place is a bar type place where people have to sit next to each other and so invite conversation that way. Random walk up’s are very hit or miss.

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But I as a person am fairly standoffish until I know someone. I’ll be sweet and friendly until they try to move to “ask out on date” and then I’ll get awkward or uncomfortable because I don’t know them. Too many times my friendliness has been interpreted as flirting. Its not. I just pay attention when most people are talking to me unless they’ve already made me uncomfortable.

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