You tell her the truth as mercifully as you can. Don’t drag it out. She probably knows you don’t feel the same anymore, so break up with her soon. Explain your reasons when you do, but keep it succinct and don’t be cruel. If you live together, find a friend who can host one of you, and ferry along the others belongings. I’m sorry you’re going through this

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Have a conversation about it. Don’t just do a “we’re done” text. You also don’t have to explain everything you or she did wrong. Just be understanding because breaking up with a partner you have been with for that long is hard

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