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Should I go to therapy if I’m in my last year of college but still cant stop thinking about a girl who harrassed me, spread rumors, and ruined my life senior year of high school. (Im a girl). Idk if it’s normal to still feel this way, but she ruined
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Anonymous 5w

I absolutely think therapy will help. It doesn’t matter that it’s been a while. If it still bothers you it still bothers you.

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Anonymous 5w

There’s no time limit to therapy. Even if you’re in your last year you can definitely still go especially if it’s affecting you. Unless you mean using the campus one if you have one and with that I wouldn’t know. Maybe a local one would be better so you can continue to see them post graduation

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Anonymous 5w

I still think about the girl who traumatized the fuck out of me senior year of highschool. I think that’s just trauma

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Anonymous 5w

Ruined my life, my image to others, wanted to ruin college for me, I literally wanted to kill myself and sometimes still do remembering everything she said about me. I never received an apology and probably never will. Idk how to move on at all and I HATE having to come home from school for breaks where I’m very much reminded of it

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Anonymous 5w

this isn’t a therapy problem, war ptsd is a therapy problem

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5w

Yea I mean I’ve dealt with bad rumors before but this was beyond. She wanted me dead and wanted to ruin my name in our town so bad that I would never want to come back here and I guess that’s exactly what she did.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’m so so sorry you went through that. I’ve had some experiences with bullying and I’m mostly past it after years of therapy. These experiences suck and it’s not your fault. And how you feel is completely normal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

So is bullying and being harassed so bad they want to kill themselves. Anyone can benefit from therapy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Umm there are no restrictions on who can go to therapy…BUT for you to comment this on my post where I’m clearly struggling and just want help… I would suggest YOU go to therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Oh stfu And btw war ptsd is a PSYCHIATRIST problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Defenitely trauma. But the type of things she said such as wanting to kill me or email my college lies to ruin college for me just haunt me and I live in constant paranoia that she’s gonna post my name all over everywhere to ruin any future job opportunities. She wanted to RUIN my life and although it’s been a few years it brings me anxiety every day.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I was kinda worried for a sec bc our stories seemed aligned🫣 but that’s wildly fucked up.

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