Ask Women on Sidechat | for reference I’m a girl, do u think it’s possible to stay friends with a girl who recently says she thinks she’s lesbian or bi, and has tried to make a move on me. I rejected her but I’m nervous that she’s still kind of hinting at it or would try again.

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Ask Women 3d

for reference I’m a girl, do u think it’s possible to stay friends with a girl who recently says she thinks she’s lesbian or bi, and has tried to make a move on me. I rejected her but I’m nervous that she’s still kind of hinting at it or would try again.

Anonymous 3d

I’d hold out on making a final decision if I were you. Cause yeah they made a move but if you stopped it and that’s the end of that then I don’t see why you still can’t be friends

Anonymous

#1 3d

Yea I mean, I rejected it but I still get the idea she’s trying to in little ways make me interested. Like I hug my straight friends but when she tries to hug or cuddle me it feels likes it’s bc she wants it to lead to more.

Anonymous

OP 3d

Yeah I get that but it might just be because it’s fresh in your memory that you’re thinking about it that way. But you also have to remember it’s fresh in their memory. Feelings don’t just disappear but if they respect your choice then overtime they will.

Anonymous

#1 3d

Yeah that’s probably right, I don’t think she even had “feelings” or maybe a little but she just calls me pretty a lot which makes me think she wants to hookup and stay friends which is almost a weirder concept to me 😭

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Anonymous

OP 3d

So I’m a bi girl and if I hit on one my friends and they said no I would take that as the answer. I don’t see where you get the idea that she wants to hookup.

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 3d

No I meant like I don’t think to begin with she was making a move because she had feelings I think it was more a physical attraction and she wanted to just hookup

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 3d

Also though you might just be more aware of boundaries, my straight friends don’t even try to cuddle with me but this friend tries to even after I rejected her

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Anonymous

OP 3d

This is true! Everyone does have different boundaries. Either way it doesn’t stop the fact you are uncomfortable. Tell her how she’s acting makes you uncomfortable or wait a bit longer and maybe see if someone else sees the difference in her actions