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Is 20 too young to get engaged, I’ve been with my bf for 3 years
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Anonymous 2w

Ok so there’s a lot abt financially supporting ourselves, I’m a junior in college and I have a job and he has his own house with a well paying job

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Anonymous 2w

It depends tbh but it’s a bit eyebrow raising (as someone who got engaged at 22). You wanna make sure you’re in a safe space financially and education wise. It’s important to make sure that you can survive if something happens before being reliant on anyone imo

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Anonymous 2w

for me, yes but you know yourself and your relationship– just make sure you really think about it lol

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Anonymous 2w

Tbh yes. Your brain isn’t developed till 25 and they say it takes 5 years to know a person. Plus you gotta think about stability and financial security. But it always just depends on the people involved

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Anonymous 2w

Yes, especially if you guys can’t financially support yourselves. And I just think it’s wayyyy to young 😭

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Anonymous 2w

Not at all, I’m also 20, been with my bf for 4.5 years and want to get engaged this year

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Anonymous 2w

personally, yes.

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Anonymous 2w

imo yes

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Anonymous 2w

Hummm yeah… what are you going to drink at your engagement party? Boxed apple juice? 😂🤪

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Don’t have to be rude

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

What’s the age difference between you guys out of curiosity

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

yes extremely important question lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

2 years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

phew

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Honestly thinking about being engaged for 2 more years though so we’re both fully out of college and finically stable. Rather be on a fiancé status then just girlfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

That’s exactly what I was thinking

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

That makes a lot of sense. No point in getting married and living with parents.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

That’s really nice tbh because you can take your time and relax and finish school

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