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Why do men always want women to lower their personal standards so we can date them :/
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Anonymous 20w

Also what you consider a 4/10 isn't the same for everyone. Physical attraction is subjective

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Anonymous 20w

Because talks standards are high as hell lmao

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Anonymous 20w

I’m extremely confused, as a dude who is not the most attractive unless there’s like less than 50 people in a room, I don’t want to date someone who is significantly more attractive than me. That sounds horrible, and I’m not even that cynical of a person.

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Anonymous 20w

What does this even mean? So if you're a 4/10 you should just go fuck yourself?

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Anonymous 20w

“Men” no people of both sexes do the same shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

In case you haven't noticed there has been a string of these posts with similar wording, here over the past few days

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

And here we go! Like op said different people find different things attractive to one person you might be a 4/10 while to another you might be a 8/10. It all comes down to what people are attracted to. So please stop being obtuse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

Well clearly the point of the question is someone YOU would find to be a 4 out of 10 and someone YOU would find to be a 10 out of 10

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

Have you considered that people know when someone just wants them for sex and more than likely wouldn't be with them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

That’s basically what they’re saying yes. And 4/10 isn’t even that bad, that’s like average guy with maybe one imperfection, like maybe his nose is a little crooked. But these girls just want 10/10s, and when the 10/10s cheat, then they blame us regular guys 🙃😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20w

What do you think the standards are?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 20w

I want somebody well rounded, and there’s no way I’m going to be able to maintain a healthy relationship with someone who checks every box AND is a 10/10. The attractiveness will come from the other stuff and as long as they are at least as hot as me the sex should be good so why settle, because honestly there’s some screws lose with the really hot ones who want me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

Correct me if I’m wrong but are you sure you know how attractive you are, or how attractive your equivalent is? Because if you don’t, you’re a part of the problem here tbh

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