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Why do men always want women to lower their personal standards so we can date them :/
Would u rather be w/ a?
#poll
10/10 who is w/ u for sex
4/10 who actually loves u
251 votes
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Anonymous 1w

Also what you consider a 4/10 isn't the same for everyone. Physical attraction is subjective

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Anonymous 1w

Cuz we want to date

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Anonymous 1w

Because talks standards are high as hell lmao

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Anonymous 6d

I’m extremely confused, as a dude who is not the most attractive unless there’s like less than 50 people in a room, I don’t want to date someone who is significantly more attractive than me. That sounds horrible, and I’m not even that cynical of a person.

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Anonymous 1w

What does this even mean? So if you're a 4/10 you should just go fuck yourself?

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Anonymous 1w

“Men” no people of both sexes do the same shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

At the expense of women who don't actually want you. Maybe clean up your appearance, be less insecure, work on your personality, and maybe that'll get you somewhere

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

U can’t all have 10s

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ykw f off actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

In case you haven't noticed there has been a string of these posts with similar wording, here over the past few days

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

So is asking for the bare minimum too much? Or do you want the standards to lower even further?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

He wants women to sacrifice their wants and desires for his 🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Aw, so it seems like he isn't ready for a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

For the greater good. It’s up to women whether we procreate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

We have enough kids on this earth and why don't you get with an ugly chick with that logic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Wow, “ugly chick”? U definitely don’t sound like an evil pretty girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

???

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

And here we go! Like op said different people find different things attractive to one person you might be a 4/10 while to another you might be a 8/10. It all comes down to what people are attracted to. So please stop being obtuse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Well clearly the point of the question is someone YOU would find to be a 4 out of 10 and someone YOU would find to be a 10 out of 10

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Have you considered that people know when someone just wants them for sex and more than likely wouldn't be with them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

If you are a 4/10, perhaps consider going for a woman who is a 4/10. It’s not that hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

That’s basically what they’re saying yes. And 4/10 isn’t even that bad, that’s like average guy with maybe one imperfection, like maybe his nose is a little crooked. But these girls just want 10/10s, and when the 10/10s cheat, then they blame us regular guys 🙃😁

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Because y’all’s standards towards what makes a hot man hot is unrealistic. A man has to be tall, muscular and have a good looking face to be considered good looking. And that is a small percentage of men

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Have you ever asked them what they look for in a man?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

What do you think the standards are?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Not for his sake but for your own, I don’t know you, you could be strikingly beautiful, but be honest with yourself, cause if you’re not that pretty, you’re not funny and sociable enough to run with extremely interesting people, or not smart and ambitious enough to have built up things of value, how are you going to reasonably expect someone of that caliber to stay with you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Extremely Interesting people does not mean your average, attractive alcoholic btw, that’s just interesting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6d

I want somebody well rounded, and there’s no way I’m going to be able to maintain a healthy relationship with someone who checks every box AND is a 10/10. The attractiveness will come from the other stuff and as long as they are at least as hot as me the sex should be good so why settle, because honestly there’s some screws lose with the really hot ones who want me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

Correct me if I’m wrong but are you sure you know how attractive you are, or how attractive your equivalent is? Because if you don’t, you’re a part of the problem here tbh

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