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Does my gf not love me the same as her if she never celebrated my birthday in our 2 years of dating? She always makes her birthday a big thing but it would be nice if she did it for me too. I’ve never got a gift or a card, just a text of happy birthday.
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Anonymous 1w

Bro she does not love you

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Anonymous 1w

twin you gotta talk to her, tell her how it makes you feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Oh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I spend as much as I can reason on my boyfriend for every holiday but especially his birthday, take him out to dinner and everything (and he does the same for me)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

My last birthday I just wanted to watch a movie with her and she came when it was over and missed it so I watched it alone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah no, maybe if you say something and she makes change it shows she’s willing to fix it but… obviously she doesn’t care very much about celebrating you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I said that the first time but I gave her the benefit of the doubt bc my birthday was also on my grad party so maybe she forgot but the movie thing happened my second birthday of us being tg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah, so you should either tell her again that it’s really bothering you that you don’t feel like she cares as much about you as you do her or even as she does herself. You can propose this as something to fix or if it’s not worth dealing with then make it the reason you end things

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ok thanks twin. Just feels like I’m being taken advantage when I spend crazy amounts on her but she doesn’t do it back

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And that’s exactly what it is ✋ hope everything works out for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Oh damn well I hope you and your bf stay tg and are happy forever. Thank you for your input and advice

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