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My girlfriend had had sex with 34 different guys. We’re both 21. It kind of bothers me that so many guys have had sex with my gf. What should I do?
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Anonymous 5d

Tbh I could never date a guy like that major red flag

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Anonymous 5d

Either break up or get over it? You can’t unfuck people

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Anonymous 5d

I understand this. My bf has a high body count too 20+ & 2 yrs later it still grosses me out time to time when I think about it. Almost dumped him because of it.

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Anonymous 5d

Cry about it

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Anonymous 5d

If you can’t get that image out of your head it’s best to end it. You probably won’t stop thinking about it and idk what either of you could say to help it

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Anonymous 5d

Damn that’s a lot lol when I was 21 my count was 2. If it’s bothering you then talk to her about it and if that doesn’t work consider breaking up because if you can’t get past it then it’s not gonna work out

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Anonymous 5d

Why does that bother you?

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Anonymous 5d

you don’t really have many options. either find some way to get over it or break up. the past is in the past and can’t be changed. if you’re gonna be insecure or uncomfortable about it maybe you’re better off with someone else. and she’s better off with someone who respects her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

When your partner wants anything that will give it attention, them wanting you doesn’t feel special. It’s like a guy who asked your whole friend group after you find out you just so happened to be the girl that said yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

i never really understood this, it’s not like she dated or had feelings for all those guys. she’s still giving him something more rare and special by choosing to commit with him

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5d

Exactly. The cherry isn’t better than the whole pie

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